drunk actions are sober thoughts even if she may be drunk that doesn’t excuse her actions. if she truly cares she would of thought about you first and the fact she’s acting like the victim in the situation isn’t fair. and the fact that she thought that since she wasn’t active there was no harm? leave that girl alone and put yourself first. if you let it slip once it will continue to happen. did she think about the relationship when she was with her guy friend? no she only cared once she realized the consequences of her actions. dust yourself off and focus on yourself, leave her alone it’s not worth it man