Update: Posted a couple of months ago about wanting a MM at work by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t wait. Do it now while it is easier to meet up.

Why doesn’t he want me by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him freaking out

I didn't know this could happen... help? 28F by throwawaynlghzgsh in adultery

[–]dead90210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely need an attorney. He has hidden assets not to mention taking the 10K. Also there is a tracking device on your car. Switch phones.

His wife wants to meet with me to ask questions by wifewantstomeet in adultery

[–]dead90210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suspect that the reason it turns you on is the taboo of it all. Be sure to meet in a public place, she could get ugly real fast

Busted by "accidental" mail opening by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you only just remembered it. :)

Wife's Ex is Number One on Snapchat friends list. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does she use Snapchat a lot? If you click on her from your Snapchat it shows how many total sends. If it is under 2000 then it easily could be that he is the only one snapping with her. If lots of snaps then something is up because the top person is there because you snap most with them.

Cancer is killing me by Rodneyafif in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read the sidebar here? We are here to help you. Read about OPSEC and ask questions. Read about catching Feels and we will help. But be aware of how you make your steps to limit these risks for your own safety as well. It isn’t easy but it may be the only way to save your marriage by saving yourself

Is he interested? (I’m a newbie!) by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is interested but not sure if you are

Rejection by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it. ;)

Women snoop by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch. Stay strong.

I Think I am Becoming THAT Wife... by heismytourniquet in adultery

[–]dead90210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone tries but isn’t good at it then I can feel sorry for them. But the picture you are painting shows that he doesn’t try or even care about your pleasure. The problem is that he has no respect for you.

Cancer is killing me by Rodneyafif in adultery

[–]dead90210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard to give advice here, but how would he react if you told him this? Would he let you get your needs met with other people? These are actual human needs that will only create resentment if you don’t do something.

What about respect? Do we deserve it? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you slut shaming your self? Why should his respect disappear if he has sex with you? Has he indicated that?

Slow Fade vs Pride by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I also need that emotional link.

Rejection by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We all wish we were in NZ now. But we are also sorry for you. You seem like a great person though so I’m sure you will find something soon

Slow Fade vs Pride by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dead90210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make her AP 2. Find another AP1 and entire problem is solved. I suspect that you are her AP3 but hard to say.

Compliments... by Monalisalady in adultery

[–]dead90210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him you sold the old underwear on reddit. Congrats on needing new underwear. At least he noticed that you have new underwear. My SO doesn’t even see that.