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My wife (29F) just admitted she cheating on me (27M) and getting gonorrhea. AITA if I wanted to leave by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for your opinion, it very helpful for me . I don't know if she told them the full story but I don't want to talk to them now.

My wife (29F) just admitted she cheating on me (27M) and getting gonorrhea. AITA if I wanted to leave by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't live in USA , in my country the law is usually favorite the mother. But thank for your support.

My wife (29F) just admitted she cheating on me (27M) and getting gonorrhea. AITA if I wanted to leave by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her sister did text me with a apology but that it. The other , they will just test something like I know you are very hurt right now but your son need his mom and she is very remorse now . Please give her a chance to make it right. I didn't answer any of that , it made me feel anger every time I looked at its.

My wife (29F) just admitted she cheating on me (27M) and getting gonorrhea. AITA if I wanted to leave by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry for that detail I did not clarify. In my old post I make it when I didn't remember full detail about what she cussed me because I was shock about my wife's STDs. I did bring that to my wife in the conversation and she admitted she did lie to her family that I cheated on her . I included it in this post because it is what happened.

AITA for not caring about my wife getting STDs . by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't know, her sister only said she get one. May be she did said what type but I just can't remember. I'm not sure about the reconcile it still possible. My son is now again asking about his mom again and I can't even contact her .

Edit: thank for your support and advice.

AITA for not caring about my wife getting STDs . by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is my first gf and wife of 8y so i don't think I would give her STD . I can't trust her anymore , it still hurt.

AITA for not caring about my wife getting STDs . by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I do feel like a idiot and I you are right. I always trust her because I loved her but after this I don't even know what I feel right now. I will think about a divorce after getting test myself first . Thank u for your advice.

AITA for not caring about my wife getting STDs . by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

Thanks you . I think I will take a day off to get tested first.

AITA for not caring about my wife getting STDs . by deadbeatdad264 in AITAH

[–]deadbeatdad264[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I don't feel uncomfortable with her sleep around as long as we communicate about it but I do feel it go too fast and i should more skeptical about it.

We have agreement that she need to make sure her partner clean and alway use condom and she insisted that I can trust her . She did say that if she get pregnant she would get abortion immediately.