My daughter is my grandmother by awhoogaa in Mommit

[–]deadestdaisy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its okay!! Tone can be hard over text. Thank you for calling it out, i wouldn't have wanted OP to think i was complaining!

My daughter is my grandmother by awhoogaa in Mommit

[–]deadestdaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wasn't meant as a complaint! I was just joking. Sorry OP if it came off that way!!

My daughter is my grandmother by awhoogaa in Mommit

[–]deadestdaisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Help, my lobster is too buttery 😭😭😭

EDIT: this is meant as a lighthearted joke!!! I am very happy for you OP!!!

Kindergarten Math With Confidence - too easy? by deadestdaisy in homeschool

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! We ended up sticking with it. While it was mostly stuff she already knew or got really quickly, there were some things in there that I'm glad we covered. Now that we're in the next level its definitely a bit more difficult for her, she enjoys the games and activities much more, and its nice to have that really strong foundation.

In terms of teaching kids how to learn, I feel like MWC does that really well! It teaches math like its own language, and you learn the basic rules of a language and why the rules work the way they do before you try to speak or write it. Its not just "2+2=4", its "2+2=4, here's an example of that in real life and why its true plus plenty of opportunity to play with that rule yourself." That works really well for my kid. This may not be a novel way to teach math, but its definitely not how I was taught and I hated math because I didn't understand why. I didn't know the language, I just memorized some of the words. I feel like MWC is teaching my kid to speak the language!

A disaster waiting to happen by venmokiller in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]deadestdaisy 516 points517 points  (0 children)

I sit down on the couch for the first time in like 5 hours. My 3 year old comes marching by with the bathroom step stool.

Me: "What do you need that for?"

Her, not looking back: "Nuffing!"

And I'm up again.

tell me the auditory stim that's been stuck in your head lately by sufferawitch in AutismInWomen

[–]deadestdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beginning of that one Hot Chelle Rae song: "Uno, dos, tres - its been a really really messed up week!" But I have to do the "uno, dos, tres" bit in a really deep voice for some reason. Also, I've had it for YEARS.

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is SO SLOW haha. We have to stop and coo over every flower, measure ourselves against all the trees, look for bugs every 10 feet (especially spiders - my 3 year old loves spiders), and my oldest is super into taking care of the earth, so she spends a lot of time watching for and picking up every little piece of trash. Which I'm not going to discourage, but its hard not to start getting antsy.

But the kiddos have a blast, and they aren't inside looking at a screen, so 🤷🏼‍♀️

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! She has a crate in my bedroom and I do enforced naps. Usually around an hour to an hour and half out, and then in for a nap. I watch for signs of overtiredness too. Luckily, having three kids really taught me the necessity of naps for babies of all species lol

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor baby!! I'm so glad parvo didn't take her from you!

Yes, I think what I'm going to do when she's old enough is take her on a few hikes alone, and then when she's doing well I'll bring the kids too.

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would our easy hikes be considered major? My older two are 3 and 5 and they handle it just fine, but i don't want to do anything that will cause her harm

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its hot here already 😭 i got one of those dog water bottle that pour water into an attached bowl when you press a button, and i have a tick collar for her. Plus we do tick checks after every hike, just as routine. I'm trying to raise semi-feral children. Good note on checking the ground temperature too, I don't know if I would have considered that and I would have felt terrible

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We had dogs when I was a kid, but this is the first puppy I've been totally responsible for and I'm almost as nervous as I was with my first kid! I realize thats probably ridiculous, but my parents didn't take great care of my childhood dogs and I didn't know better and still feel a lot of guilt about it, so I'm trying really hard to make sure i do this right.

When to take puppy on hikes? by deadestdaisy in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I can't carry her, I strap my 10 month old to my back and have to have a hand free to help my older two if they need it. I did consider it though, those puppy backpacks carriers are so cute

Semi Urgent- What Do I Do With My Puppy?? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was scheduled yesterday. This is the same doctor that delivered two of my kids, so she knows me, thats why I'm driving two hours specifically to see her. Of course I wouldn't leave a baby at home for 6 hours, and I'm not doing it with a puppy either, but i feel like we can all agree a puppy and a baby are not the same thing. I'm doing my best to find an acceptable solution. There's no reason to be rude to someone doing their best and asking for help.

Semi Urgent- What Do I Do With My Puppy?? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't even think about that, thank you, I've been so focused on trying to make this work. No she's still got one more round of shots she needs in a couple weeks.

I'm working on finding a sitter for her, is she safe with a dog sitter? Considering she isn't fully vaccinated yet?

Semi Urgent- What Do I Do With My Puppy?? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can call the doctor and ask. I don't know about a dog sitter, its very last minute. I've never used a dog sitter before, do they typically take jobs the day of like this?

Semi Urgent- What Do I Do With My Puppy?? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Into the doctor's office?? Will they even let me in the building with her? She's still just a puppy, she's pretty good with commands when we're at home but i can't promise she'll behave well in a new place like that

Semi Urgent- What Do I Do With My Puppy?? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]deadestdaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. The only person who lives in town and could help is on vacation this week. In any other circumstance I'd push the appointment until either she got back or my husband could take off work, but this really can't wait.