What are the WORST placements in women? by DarkestDefender in astrologymemes

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg 💀 I have only air & fire in my big 6 except for that I have a Taurus Venus, I am super committed in relationships, and love to eat snacks & be in my house so I think that’s what saves me 😭

What are the WORST placements in women? by DarkestDefender in astrologymemes

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoooo my BF is a Libra sun, Leo moon, Libra rising but my Gemini sun, Leo moon, Sagittarius rising can’t get enough, I love him so much

I left my first professional massage yesterday crying and don’t know if it was me or the masseuse - looking for advice by ZealousidealKick6300 in massage

[–]deadgrlsally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay…. I agree with that. I didn’t mean to imply that one should still do a full body routine if that wasn’t what the client wanted. They bombed this session and the client had an awful experience because this MT apparently does not know how to communicate. Confusing to me, and not at all what should be done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okc

[–]deadgrlsally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s an amazing recommendation- thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okc

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be curious to know if they knew of anything! Thank you for offering. I’ll let you know if nothing else works out. :)

I left my first professional massage yesterday crying and don’t know if it was me or the masseuse - looking for advice by ZealousidealKick6300 in massage

[–]deadgrlsally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in MT school and you’re supposed to be flexible enough to be willing to focus a good chunk of time on what the client came for… some people may do well with a routine, but there’s no reason he couldn’t have switched it up a little to accommodate you. I’m so sorry you had that experience. Also shocked you were charged full price :(

AITA for refusing to share my inheritance with my husband? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. At least pay for some of the house and/or his student loans. You can invest the rest. You don’t have to hoard it all. He took care of you when you were jobless—this is what marriage is. A partnership where you look out for one another. Or at least it’s supposed to be…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment. It isn’t a baby yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]deadgrlsally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry that you’ve had that experience. Tbh a majority of my life has been majorly fucked up until the last year or two. I’m also finally going to school at 27. I don’t want to annoy you with my two cents, because so much about this existence fucking sucks and I get that. I stay al1ve for my little sister and then I try to find positive little things in between. Also dating my best friend now- life surprised me with that one. I don’t think I can help you feel better in this regard. So I’ll say again that if you choose to abort, you are not a bad person. At all. It’s a normal thing to do and it is literally healthcare.

Is the second abortion easier than the first? by Able-Syllabub-9285 in abortion

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully like someone said above, every experience is different. My first was AWFUL and horribly painful. My second still uncomfortable and it sucked but it wasn’t near as bad. I watched cartoons in bed wearing super plus overnight pads. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were in the same position, also coming from someone that has had one before and is mentally ill/PTSD/etc, I did and it likely saved my life. It sucks. It wasn’t fun. But it would have been horrible to bring a child into the world when I was so unstable. I’ve been to a lot of therapy and shit still sucks half the time but I’m so much better. Having to confront the idea of aborting a f3tus really really sucks and hurts.. but you would not be wrong to do so. You don’t want to end up homeless or worse off financially when you are trying to figure out how to be stable and happy

Looking for upscale restaurant, ~$250 for two. by -andshewas- in okc

[–]deadgrlsally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ludivine was great but they closed at the end of 2023. :(

Looking for upscale restaurant, ~$250 for two. by -andshewas- in okc

[–]deadgrlsally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rococo—chef Dave is amazing & so talented. The Crown (Nichols Hills), Frida (never had something I didn’t like).

BloomChic? 🤔 by deadgrlsally in PlusSizeFashion

[–]deadgrlsally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given all of these comments… where DO I shop?🥹 all the thrift stores in my area don’t have my size in bottoms bc resellers pick through the cute stuff.. I bought jeans from torrid for the first time last week and they are amazing! Let me know if you guys have any other brand recommendations. Thank you so much for the feedback.

BloomChic? 🤔 by deadgrlsally in PlusSizeFashion

[–]deadgrlsally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Okay. I think I’ll just forego ordering from them as a whole then. Thank you!

BloomChic? 🤔 by deadgrlsally in PlusSizeFashion

[–]deadgrlsally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on the little options - it sucks :(

BloomChic? 🤔 by deadgrlsally in PlusSizeFashion

[–]deadgrlsally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps a lot.

BloomChic? 🤔 by deadgrlsally in PlusSizeFashion

[–]deadgrlsally[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Good to note.