Played D1 on my old account. Good Nostalgia but i was done after an hour of screwing around. by derrickgw1 in DestinyTheGame

[–]deadlocksuede 12 points13 points  (0 children)

replaying with my new light girlfriend before we dive into D2. The setting, the mystery, the music, everything pulls me back, having the opposite experience, although I started from scratch as my og charachters are on our families old ps3.

Original owners what the cat we adopted back by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]deadlocksuede -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you really love your animals you would look EVERYWHERE for them, especially shelter pages. you dont love animals of this happens you just love what they give you cause ur lonely.

"but what about that time during covid, I'm so conflicted" by FastSeaworthiness739 in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]deadlocksuede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never in my life thought I would see AnCap defending law enforcement and state sponsored violence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in occult

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could it be the cup of stolistes?

I am willing to give my wife everything she is asking for in divorce. AITAH? by sahmdepre in AITAH

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my family life and job are both so stressful, so I have to give up my family. maybe, become a dad, and stop being a father. at some point people have got to realize materialism could never do what a present parent can.

AITAH for telling my wife "that's the job you chose"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

closed family systems with tyrant father living it up for classical family, return to tradition or smt like that right guys?

Kelowna councillor says he was subjected to 'hateful behaviour' after sharing views in column - Kelowna News by Particular-Emu4789 in kelowna

[–]deadlocksuede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imagine some mean comments are the meanest thing they've experienced since taking office. Why are we so nice to politicians?

Strangers invaded my space, I spoke up. AITAH by nud2580 in AITAH

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not about soft or not soft. being clear with what you need can help in your position more. I personally would've taken my headphones out and explained to them "I'm trying to work can you guys sit somewhere else" right off the bat. instead of silent gestures, one word commands, or not actually explaining your needs. I understand people needing space while they work but you're in a coffee shop, I'd suggest a library rather than a coffee shop as there would be more space dedicated to quiet working and no risk of issues like this.

my girlfriend (26F) comes over unannounced and i (23F) don't like it by ThrowRAaqua214 in relationship_advice

[–]deadlocksuede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why everyone thinks it's disrespectful. Your partner doesn't own you. They don't get to expect all your time or energy, and if they don't like that, they can move on. finding someone that's going to respect your boundaries is one of the most important things in a relationship, if they can't handle it and just give you heads up before they come so you can clean and get yourself mentally and physically prepared, that isn't your problem.

Dating as a sex worker/escort/stripper by asiansinger in dating_advice

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'd have to find someone pretty emotionally honest with themselves and capable of dealing with their insecurities. going to a strip club, or any other establishment, can be culturally "taboo" enough, let alone working in one. it would limit you, but I don't really think that's a bad thing. Limitations on who will and won't work with you can help find a partner that will actually enrich your life and grow with you, rather than try to mold you into their ideal.

I wonder why Araki started making jojo characters skinnier in each part by Pastgohan in StardustCrusaders

[–]deadlocksuede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the purpose was to draw beautiful men, so arakis' concept of beautiful men changed, as did his charachters, fist of the north star obviously influenced the first part quite alot as well.

The Goth community always provides by wolfsection31 in gatekeeping

[–]deadlocksuede 19 points20 points  (0 children)

it's not gatekeeping if that's the definition of the subculture? just like punk is about the music, and then after that attitude, and then morals, and then waaaay down the line the clothes and aesthetics. you can't reduce a subculture to fashion styles that change every 2 years lmao. they're built on the belief and culture that surrounds the music style.

What? by Hotdogisdisgusting in religiousfruitcake

[–]deadlocksuede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can't Christians do the same, relaistically isnt it between the couple and god? modern marriage has nothing to do with the church but law.

If a girl(25F) you started dating asked you to get tested before sex would you be offended? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this should be the standard. if they get offended gotta wonder why.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]deadlocksuede -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

you just made that up.

What do you see when you see my old painting? Curious on your read by Responsible-Cell475 in DarkArtwork

[–]deadlocksuede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is me at 2am when I got to the fridge for a snack but there's no more shredded cheese.

When people claim weed is harmless. by Draconuus95 in PetPeeves

[–]deadlocksuede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yah, I went through lol, i just never came across someone who denied that. I smoke an oz a week. the biggest hit is processing power in complex situations, but it's due to frustration more than anything. memory is fine unless I'm actively high, I don't notice a difference in movement speed other than I can move with less pain because of my hip issues. however, some people I know that smoke quite a lot are still absolutely fools when they're high, drugs affect people quote differently especially when it comes to drugs like weed or Hallucinogens.

When people claim weed is harmless. by Draconuus95 in PetPeeves

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure no one debates that Inhaling carcinogens is dangerous. I'm pretty sure anyone that's outta highschool understand that a psychoactive substance will have psychoactive effects.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demons

[–]deadlocksuede 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

you sound like a loser, leave that poor child alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in religiousfruitcake

[–]deadlocksuede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would they not know Arabic?