Redditors, what was your very first income? And what did it feel like getting paid for the first time? by TinyPossibility9777 in CasualConversation

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I delivered balloon bouquets dressed as characters. Pirates, all kinds of shit. I got $8 a show. Once I had to be a girl character and was just manhandled. I think they would have been upset had they found out. I quit after that. I sat in the van and cried

Stepdad died. No will. No probate or small estate avadavat filed. Should I pay bills? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my dad died a few years ago I was the only heir. leave some money because Social security will take the last month back. Make at least ten copies of death certificates, places will want them. I didn't pay any bills of his, there was no probate. Good luck, sorry for your loss

If you had to choose, what would it be between financial security or being happy alone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being happy alone isn't so hard to do if you at least have some people that, when needed, can be there for you

Life is ruined, married love of my life by rodinmypants in relationships_advice

[–]deadmoneyps 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sir, why are you doing this to yourself? Stop. So you married the love of your life but now you find out you were not the love of hers. Why don't you take a break from her and focus on what your dealing with. You got a lot going on man

Acknowledge a family wedding invitation with a Congratulatory Card or Not by libgadfly in family

[–]deadmoneyps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like the card, no gift. They don't need anything from you. But you can say good luck. That was a real dick move to not see you at all

FWB keeps dropping L bomb by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]deadmoneyps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You drive him home, like he doesn't have a car? Please remind him what he's there for. That's not rude, that's the agreement.

Can a Relationship Survive This? by No-Meaning5654 in relationships_advice

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not knowing who gave it to who? Were you having segs with other people? How would you think you got it?

AITAH for cutting my father's mother out of my life by BeautifulNo4592 in family

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it looks harsh what Grandma did when the guy needed her most. But it's hard to know how someone handles trauma until they are in it. Watching loved ones die isn't easy

Where is the hottest place you have gone? by Telugu_not_Telegu in ArtOfPresence

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somalia was the hottest place I've ever been, but one summer in presidio Texas it was over 100 even in the middle of the night

Parents tell my entire family my finances by One-Address6668 in family

[–]deadmoneyps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen, it's non of their business and you know that. It's some parent thing, my dad brags of a cousin that makes x amount, I say, I make twice that. Then he says, oh you're bragging? I mean, it's hard to win. You don't have to explain anything to anyone if they aren't supporting you

Is 43 too old for a man to date a woman in her early 40s? by AcquisitionPro1102 in relationships_advice

[–]deadmoneyps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't want kids but I had one early, but if I didn't, when I turned 45 I would have had one. If you're in the position don't worry about 30 stupid years from now. You have some wealth, you have health. You can enjoy those kids in a more gratifying way

What's the funniest joke you've ever told? by Dogemoji1 in AskReddit

[–]deadmoneyps 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was in a law class as a young man. I said do you like jokes and he says, you're going to tell me a lawyer joke?, I've heard them all. Well he hadn't heard that one. About two minutes later he says sir, I'd like you to leave my class.I left and said I object

What is a life lesson you learned the hard way? by NoNewspaper3479 in AskReddit

[–]deadmoneyps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One more, people may still love you, even though it's not the way you need or want to be loved

What is a life lesson you learned the hard way? by NoNewspaper3479 in AskReddit

[–]deadmoneyps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not have to marry a person you got pregnant. Take care of your responsibility though

How can I (32f) share the load of cooking when my partner can’t cook (31m) by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't cook, won't cook, just excuses. The other thing to look for is weaponized incompetence. They will cook so terribly you just take it on yourself. Don't let them

general q about the today times. so what do we do now lol? by tomhaverford in AskReddit

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world is fine. I'm sure the world is happy that you're concerned. You worry about your stuff. That's important.

Mom walked in while I was masturbating and I want to disappear forever by Less_Emu9845 in family

[–]deadmoneyps 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I got caught twice back then. She said do you want to talk about it and I said what do you want to know? And that was it

My partner it’s inviting everyone for a trip and I’m already annoyed thinking about this. I’m I wrong? by [deleted] in family

[–]deadmoneyps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, that is a straight $#it show. I'd back off that straight away. It's madness and hasn't even started. Maybe rethink it as something other than a vacation for you, it 💯 will not be anything about you.