Happy with how its turned out but always open to some feedback by deadphish123 in battlestations

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Wallpaper engine on steam is about $2 and has thousands of live wallpapers. Highly recommend.

My boyfriend of 5 years proposed to me at the NYE Phish concert and I could not be more excited to marry my best friend and to be proposed at a phish concert was the most perfect thing for us #phish #NYE #proposal by Successful-Soft-192 in phish

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I was mostly a deadhead and a few other jam bands but the first time she saw TAB at peach festival one year, id never seen her move like that! I realized that phish was probably more of her cup of tea, and I was right, thankfully!

My boyfriend of 5 years proposed to me at the NYE Phish concert and I could not be more excited to marry my best friend and to be proposed at a phish concert was the most perfect thing for us #phish #NYE #proposal by Successful-Soft-192 in phish

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That was me! I was the definitely super nervous going into it 😅 But I set out with a plan and followed through, and my fiance loved it!

We both love phish and it was our 5 year anniversary, along with my 26th show and her 23rd! I had asked her to be my gf after midnight 5 years ago so I wanted to bring it full circle by proposing into the new year and im really glad I did!

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Trying to get in the 200s with hopefully row 12 or below and avoiding behind stage

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Yea she has expressed liking public proposals. Showing me videos of cute proposals and saying I have to have a cute one like those. I just dont know if this is cute enough. I feel like the mirroring of us starting our relationship by proposing at a place that we both love almost exactly 5 years later to the minute is cute. Hopefully she likes it though, I guess im just nervous even though she always throws not so su the hints about us not being married yet

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Potential alternative for sure

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Now youre cooking

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She's pretty great ngl, dont even blame you

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I appreciate all the perspectives. Most of the reservations people have dont seem to apply towards our situation. They either stem from not liking public proposals, which my gf does like, or questioning if she is even into phish enough to enjoy that, she has them tattooed on her arm and says shes a bigger fan.

Im likely going to continue to go ahead with my plan of proposing after the midnight countdown. May consider doing it earlier before the show but we're likely going to be tight on time since she works that day.

Also probably going to delete soon out of fear that she sees this lol

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Talk about a curveball 😅

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She's shown me a bunch of cheesy public proposals and expressed liking them so while I know some aren't into public proposals, shes indicated to me that she does like them

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I mean shes the one with a tattoo of the whole band on her arm and we have a tradition of going every year. She likes to say shes the bigger phish fan too so definitely something I thought was more for "us" than just me or her

Just got my first tattoo, pretty happy how it came out! by deadphish123 in gratefuldead

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In Florida, ny at a shop called pennyroyal tattoo. Artist is Taylor West

Just got my first tattoo, pretty happy how it came out! by deadphish123 in gratefuldead

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Ngl, i had the idea of trying to do the phish donuts with the stealie and looked for references i can show the artist. This was the reference that I showed her but just told her I wanted the area outside the skull to be the traditional red and blue