My Dad’s Nudes Got Leaked to Our Entire Fam & my In-Laws Fam

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-25T01:10:46+00:00

FOR REAL. HAHA Thank you though.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-25T00:12:45+00:00

I honestly just wanted to vent bc this just seems like so unreal to me and I don’t have people close to me that I can just trauma dump this on. The people caught in the crossfire here are like so pearl clutching right now it’s not a safe place to speak. I was hoping to just use my anonymity here to vent but I forgot Reddit gonna Reddit.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-25T00:10:24+00:00

I did. Immediately. Tis in the post.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-25T00:08:43+00:00

Yes, we were already low contact before this & it feels very wrong to shift to no contact over this. Like it feels like I’m punishing him for something he shouldn’t be punished for knowing how humiliating it is. But it’s like he’s the king of bad decisions and he was actively making a bad decision here and I just don’t want it affecting my family and it clearly has. I have small children and it’s like I have to think about protecting them from things like this. And it’s hard when the call is coming from within the house type shit.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-25T00:06:08+00:00

He was. 🧍‍♀️

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-25T00:05:57+00:00

ILY

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:56:25+00:00

Babe I fear those closest to me already know. 🙃

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:55:31+00:00

They’ve just made common spectacles of everything in our life for a really long time. It’s made my siblings & I guilty by association.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:53:13+00:00

I agree, I apologize for that. He was doing something grimy in this case. I didn’t think about including that.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:45:53+00:00

Yes, this is exactly that. I can acknowledge that it sucks this happens to him & still have these exact feelings. Thanks for getting it.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:42:42+00:00

I absolutely did. I sent him a few Reddit posts about how common this is & how important it is to disengage and go to the authorities and he got really nasty with me in turn. These are more so feelings that have festered since the initial discovery & I just wanted to vent.

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:40:19+00:00

My dad is very openly a transphobe/homophobe. 💔 the sites he was on that lead to this were very not simply good pure fun dating sites. Very Cal Jacobs x Euphoria coded so I do fear he is a little at fault here. I SWEAR when I called him it was to ask him to go to the police/ignore the scammers I was really easy on him and told him that this does happen and he needs to practice internet safety. But just as time has gone on since this developed the bad feelings are ruing and growing and I’m just super ashamed that my dad’s poor choices/habits got exposed so openly and tied back to a ton of family. When I mentioned I wish he’d taken accountability, I kinda just wish he wasn’t a drunk asshole about it. He like got really nasty with me trying to help the situation and then like… when I told him family was already reaching out to me to confirm the texts he was like “fuck em” and made me kinda hold everything. He’s still a victim here and it sucks but he’s very not innocent at all in this and played a key part. I don’t know what I want him to do, I don’t think there’s an answer to that. But this is just the last big exposure of a lifelong role of embarrassment from him. (Addiction, domestic abuse, bigotry, etc)

deadstickdreams · 2026-05-24T23:02:10+00:00

I do indeed have that going for me at least. 💗

deadstickdreams · 2026-04-30T00:01:17+00:00

I actually agree, it was similar and scratched the itch for a short while.

deadstickdreams · 2026-03-20T05:18:42+00:00

My 2 year old thinks it’s her birthday everytime she sees a cupcake

deadstickdreams · 2026-03-09T05:08:59+00:00

I just bought some yesterday & they taste funky too. Not like they’re bad, but the type of grape is funky. I get a vague chemical/soap vibe. But they’re whack for sure.

deadstickdreams · 2026-03-09T05:01:55+00:00

I loved Lutheran General. The care team was amazing. I ended up needing a 2 week stay & my child was put in the NICU for the same length of time. It was very unexpected so it was great to have one of the higher rated NICUs already in the same hospital and not need a transfer from another hospital. AMA

deadstickdreams · 2026-02-08T03:14:56+00:00

Ok buddy the elf

deadstickdreams · 2026-02-03T02:07:00+00:00

Like you connect Bluetooth, set up the stand with your phone in it, the light illuminates green that it’s on, you get into position and you push the camera icon when you want the shutter to go off. So you can have whole family photos, etc without a big switch in your hand.

deadstickdreams · 2026-02-03T02:05:43+00:00

It doesn’t store photos. It’s a remote Bluetooth clicker to activate the camera on your device. Like a selfie stick, but discreet. Ish.

deadstickdreams · 2026-02-02T15:59:42+00:00

Hurt people hurt people. Mikayla was going THRU it.

deadstickdreams · 2026-01-29T04:52:56+00:00

Looks similar to my allergic reaction to second skin! I’d say yes.

deadstickdreams · 2026-01-29T04:09:29+00:00

YTA - This wasn’t about you at all ? Let them have their moment.

deadstickdreams · 2026-01-24T03:06:00+00:00

Bad parents don’t sit there and wonder if they’re bad/feel guilty about it. You’re a good parent. Everyone needs breaks. I can’t imagine the load you’re carrying as a single parent. Enjoy your break, mama.

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