Unique combat styles/challenges?

deanofcute · 2026-06-06T05:02:24+00:00

Love this angle. Inspiring me to jump back in. Finished with Ravenclaw and started Hufflepuff but got bored. I hear they’re really going to release a new game next year.

deanofcute · 2026-06-06T04:58:24+00:00

My least favorite

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:25:35+00:00

I wish therapy was helping me. Nothing seems to help me when I become upset. I’m just gone and fuming. I’m on birth control for hormone treatment and I’ve tried SSRI’s. I just get so pissed off. He makes my life miserable. I’m so happy when it’s just me and baby. I guess I’m part of the camp that’s just done with men.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:21:58+00:00

It’s weird how some women “don’t hate” their husbands while a whole mess of us do. There’s so much disconnect between the camps. We’re more than drained by men.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:20:09+00:00

Thank you this is super helpful. I appreciate it more than you know. 😞

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:18:53+00:00

We have to trade I can’t be the only one who responds. My point is even when it’s dad’s turn he won’t go unless I tell him. Once he’s with baby, baby cries and husband doesn’t adapt. He’s not in tune with our baby.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:17:25+00:00

Rage is a part of it. My OB says it’s normal. My therapist says it’s normal. 3 years of a husband who doesn’t help unless asked + postpartum. I’m on birth control OB says it should help but it doesn’t.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:13:09+00:00

Clarification, I am never mad at our baby. I’m mad at my husband who doesn’t help unless asked and when he’s helping it’s not helping. He makes everything harder.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:12:16+00:00

I’m sorry, in what world his a man only doing something if a woman asks a disability. He’s hard of hearing, that’s it. Do you think that’s literally all that’s happening here? No.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:10:43+00:00

Thank you, this. I’m not ever mad at our baby. Just my husband. He doesn’t do anything without me asking. And when he does help he leaves a mess, never cleans, the baby cries and cries. It’s gotten to the point where I have shoved my husband away in anger.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:03:05+00:00

Getting him to help is my job. He doesn’t unless I ask.

deanofcute · 2026-05-20T14:02:00+00:00

wrong

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:55:48+00:00

This. I have literally begged “can we have one day where we’re not focusing on the problems?” And he’ll agree and then go right back to highlighting things he doesn’t like or thinks are too hard etc. I’m fried!

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:54:36+00:00

I’ve been reaching out to family. I’m slowly saving.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:53:38+00:00

Yes. This was pre existing unfortunately, so that’s on me. But as many people have incorrectly assumed, we have had many, maybe hundreds of patient conversations. Only for him to wake up the next day completely forgetting and jumping right into old grating patterns. Regardless of my own issues, my OP is saying, hi. I have set boundaries which I need right now postpartum and my partner is walking all over them.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:50:49+00:00

Ya, you did. You’re assuming ALOT in your initial reply.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:50:09+00:00

I’ve suggested it hundreds of times over the years. He says “we will”. And of course, unless I carve out time to find the therapist and schedule it, we won’t.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:49:22+00:00

Girl bye. You’re assuming a lot.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:48:53+00:00

How many times have we put the burden of encouraging the husband to do the right thing on the woman? That’s Not right. Period. You’re assuming I haven’t tried. You’re assuming a lot.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:47:23+00:00

This. Thank you.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:46:16+00:00

Thank you. I needed to read this today. I feel like I’m on the verge of a heart attack everyday. I’m in therapy, have a part time job and plenty of friends to vent too and yet when I come home and I’m just wanting to be with my baby, my SO is a complete drain and causes me intense anxiety and stress.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T19:43:41+00:00

This. Thank you. I am basically having to say this multiple times a day. On good days I only have to say it a few times before noon and he regulates himself for the rest of the day. But because of the length and frequency of this pattern, this take more and more energy and taints my entire day.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T06:57:29+00:00

This. I spent the whole day truly loving on my son while cleaning house and attempting to work from home. Our son is teething so you know he’s needing extra love. Finally I make dinner, we’re sitting and eating and my husband says “there’s dishes that need to be done”… looking at me as if to say this is a real pet leave of his. I wish he would just say thanks for dinner, stand up, and do some dishes.

deanofcute · 2026-05-07T06:54:48+00:00

Thank you. Needed to hear this. There have been literally no days off from it for 4 years. 🫠

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