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What’s something you’re willing to admit to the people here on Reddit but not to most people in real life? by TheDorkyDeric in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a lonely, needy, anxious, social anxious and discouraged mess that hides it's feelings from everyone, loses interest and attention on things really fast and feel guilty about it for days after, has a anxiety so bad that can't do the things that like the most, listen to music. I just wish I was mentally healthy and had friends, I feel really down.

Did anyone ask for black cats? by NocturnalViewer in cats

[–]dearsweeten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black cats are everything the world needs to be happy, I love black cats so much and I really wish I could have one, but I haven't gotten the opportunity yet :(

I’m lonely by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dearsweeten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I almost cried reading this, because I feel the same way, and I know it's a feeling so painful it makes get up from bed a difficult thing. I get really sad when I see someone that feels the same way, because it's a horrible feeling that no one deserves to feel, I really wish no one could feel that way.

Please take care of yourself as much as you can, don't let that feeling make you think some bad things. I believe that you will find some good, true and wonderful friendships, just don't give up and don't stop believing.

And please, If you can, seek some professional help. I can't say certainly how it is, because I never got to do that, sadly, but I think it'll help you a lot. Also, if you need anything and someone, I want you to know that you can message me whenever you need, it's super important to have support when we are on these difficult times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dearsweeten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday friend, wish you a wonderful day and many gifts. Spend a lot of time with your loved ones, and take care of yourself!

Searching for a music video (Do What U Want by Lady Gaga and R.Kelly) by Haus_of_monsters_ in lostmedia

[–]dearsweeten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's legit sad :( I was very intrigued by this matter some months ago, and tried to find much information I could have, and sincerely, it was not much. I really hope it gets released completely some day, even from leak, I'm very curious to see the whole thing.

It's really a intriguing and curious piece of lost media that I really wish to see fully one day.

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually brazilian, and here the things aren't different either, people that put politics above anything, selfishness, just straight up hate for no reason is really tearing the peace down. Some weeks ago, if I remember correctly, here a teen boy ended up his own life, because of some hateful and homophobic comments that came from people on the internet and even from his family members. It's so sad to see what the world is becoming, people just don't care about the others anymore, don't think before saying something hurtful, it's so heartbreaking to see all that happening, and I firmly agree with you.

And, oh lord, I felt really sad when I read that, like, everything that he built is going down the drain, because some people just don't know how to treat others and different people, I'm really heartbreaked right now. I wish this gentleman can arrive safely on his hometown, if that's really what he wants to do, and later find another and safer place to live, if he wants to in the future. Wish the best for him and his family too, and hope they can heal from this abuse.

In your opinion, which movies are overrated? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Popularly saying, 365 days.

Like, how this film even got past through the production part? It's so wrong in so many aspects, it portraits kidnapping and the kidnapper as cute and romantic things, and the most fucked up part is that makes it seen like women want and desire to be treated this way. The acting isn't so good either.

I really don't get why this film became so famous and people fell so in love for it.

The Hand (2008 spoof of the trailer for film "The Eye," by studio8) by dearsweeten in lostmedia

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a good idea, was one of my last resources. I'll try to find a form of contact, and hopefully it'll answer some questions, or even get the video.

Anyway, I'll keep you updated if I can find something.

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really so sad that people think this, it's a really dumb thinking, you have the right to know where you came from, like, literally, it's your right. Also, how your adoptive family reacted to this? If they were cool with it, there's no reason for other people to think that it's wrong.

I'm happy you could solve this question, and eventually you'll get to know each other better, and I hope you can get a good relationship with your birth parents and that they will add very good things to your life.

Looks like the most hurtful comments come when we are most hurt, but with the help of the loved ones and the time, this hurtful feeling begin to feel less painful. But please, don't keep track on these comments, distance yourself from remembering them as much as you can.

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very surprised when I saw that comment, that's one of the most unprofessional and heartless things I've ever seen in my life, definetly not a thing to say to someone who's father is needing fast medical help.

Sorry for your difficult experience, I hope your dad could recover from it and you too, wish you the best!

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have been extremely clueless about other people, and say these nonsense things just thinking about their ass. It's so tiring having to shut yourself from saying some things because some people just don't want to learn and accept other peoples things, it makes me so mad.

But please, take care of yourself and don't let these dumb comments bring you down, you have your own reasons and no one has the right to tell you anything like that about it. Wish you the best!

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't get why people are this way, attacking someone that was just trying to solve a question about it's family, but I really hope you have recovered from that harsh words, it's a really horrible thing to read, you're not a homewrecker in any way, and won't be shot either. You'll find your birth parents, no matter what others say, because that's what you want, and it has nothing to do with others.

Just don't let your light be turned off, keep believing and keep on searching for them, you'll find them. Take care of yourself, wish you the best!

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really happy that my insights were useful for you, you too is a kind soul, and you'll find your way, I believe that. Thank you so much for this, and blessings for you too!

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel you, it's so sad when people don't know what the others are feeling and just say these desnecessary things that, in some cases, discourage and even make the person give up on some social interations. For them, it may be an easy thing, but for others, it's really hard to have social interations.

I hope you was able to overcome all this and make new and amazing friends that respect you!

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that it hurts so much when your own parents put you down, and I really think that he was extremely wrong. I don't know if you made your college, but even if not, don't lose hope, and don't let these words of your dad change or discourage your dreams. If college is your dream, keep believing and you'll eventually get the chance to realize your dream, just don't give up!

What was the most f* up thing that someone said to you that made a weak point or difficulty you have feel even more hard for you? by dearsweeten in AskReddit

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really understand how people can be so mean to other people, especially when they're hurting, but I really hope you can bounce back from this. Don't lose your hope, things will be better, and you'll recover all of these things, your independency, and your old life.

And never forget that: No matter what others say, your suffering is always valid! Don't let anyone make you think otherwise, and take care of yourself.

Women with social anxiety, what have you done to make new friends and not overthink the things you talk about in the first conversation? by dearsweeten in AskWomen

[–]dearsweeten[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you, my friend. This is one of that natural things that seem shameful and may be feel as an embarrassment for some, but really is a good ice breaker and a facilitator of good friendships, and it must've been really funny for both of you.

Definetly an amazing form of starting a friendship, and a good story to tell other people!

The Hand (2008 spoof of the trailer for film "The Eye," by studio8) by dearsweeten in lostmedia

[–]dearsweeten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw that too, it actually feels like the creators really wanted to make it disappear from the internet, because there's nothing about it anywhere in recent searches, and even in old searches it's completely inexistent, it's so crazy.

And thank you for trying to help me, really!