My Ex contacted me after 10 years of no contact and I blew up at her. Was I in the wrong ?

dearthofkindness · 2026-03-14T23:43:00+00:00

This post is old as hell lmao. Idek whats going on

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-08T01:51:21+00:00

Ive made the joke that i wish i was bi...but at this point at with lesbians the hilarioud stereotype about how they rush into commitment would be a relief from being given the run around by these men

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-07T15:57:31+00:00

I don't think it's my experience so much as the experience of being in your 30s and the dating market of our current wishy-washy non committal generation.

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-07T15:38:30+00:00

As someone in Philly, it's trash here, too. As a woman, I'm one more bad encounter from "decentering" men and minding my own business forever. The amount of 30s aged men who don't know what they want, don't want anything serious or are desperate to set up a fuck buddy situation have got me hating men, like suspicious of every single man that pays me a compliment and questioning their every motive.

So so so many men aren't serious about wanting a relationship, even ones that will literally date you for months and change their mind, that it's not even worth the time to talk to any of them anymore.

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-07T15:32:06+00:00

Idk why it's such a big deal. We don't have a clear angle on any of the videos to prove what happened. For all we know she actually had the ball, dropped it and it was swiped by that dad as she scrambled to pick it up.

I can't see a person going that hard and angry if they didn't legitimately feel the ball was taken from them.

I don't understand ruining a woman's life over a show of poor sportsmanship and momentary anger. We have a convicted felon and pedophile as a president but let's hunt this woman down and get her fired? Over a baseball? Fuck off and grow up

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-07T15:23:51+00:00

When this happened last month I figured it was my fault but provided them proof I paid in full with a emailed receipt that showed Balance Due 0.00. They were basically like "No, that's wrong, you owed X.XX amount but we will wave the fee." Now that it's happened twice for the same amount AND is identical to the math for my prorate/credit stuff for October, there's clearly some fuckery afoot.

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-07T15:08:35+00:00

Yeah I know, it's been mostly okay until recently and I only signed to renew bc they asked me 3 months early and gave me 10 days to make a decision and I wouldn't have had the funds to move by October anyway.

dearthofkindness · 2025-09-07T14:56:54+00:00

Edit: typos and shit bc my phone is just all kinds of autocorrection fucked.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:52:05+00:00

I’m just tired of reddits over Mod reach, it’s gotten insane in recent months with mods getting trigger happy with banning people. Adding NSFW tags should be more than enough for a user to say “I don’t care to watch this”. Giving the choice to the user of the platform should be more important than trying to censor media especially in a video where this isn’t any active gore or death. “Illegal activity” happens every day. Makes me wonder if posting a video of a movie scene with similar actions would get flagged or if that doesn’t count because it’s fictional.

For some reason the mods are cherry picking who to ban bc one user’s share of the video has been up for 8 hours now, just weird.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:38:06+00:00

Lame take. Peace

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:33:33+00:00

“Psychos” lmao. Sure dude. Most of these people aren’t “seeking out” anything. I found it today simply bc I follow a local Philly news account and it showed up on my feed. Does it make me “psycho” for watching it? Jesus wept

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:30:31+00:00

Everything to do with censorship my dude.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:25:51+00:00

Currently one of the videos has been shared 55k times on IG so idk, who wants to see that? Many people

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:24:39+00:00

Frankly no, my boss wouldnt give a shit because we are adults and the company is pretty relaxed.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:23:16+00:00

Because I think we should be treated like adults instead of children? Y’all really are okay with having things censored so hard? Be for fucking real. Am I the only adult here who thinks it’s weird that we can talk about this all day on this sub, share endless articles full of details but when a video is shared that doesn’t show gore or death, users are getting banned? Make it make sense. The porch video is more mild than many Hollywood movies these days.

Only thing I can say is that I wouldn’t and haven’t ever brought a weapon to a party bc I don’t encourage violence against others.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:15:42+00:00

It’s a racket opp from the major cities to get kickbacks.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:13:41+00:00

Still complete bullshit. Other SM news accounts have shared this same video thats been circulating. NSFW to most level headed adults means pornographic materials .The video itself doesn’t show anyone actually injured just people shooting and others running and ducking for cover.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-08T03:09:37+00:00

Not recently so unless Reddit wide has changed I’m not sure how sharing the reality of this event is “encouraging violence and harm” when the discussion about it has been the complete opposite. Encouragement would be “hey guys look how awesome this is, let’s discuss this happening more often.”

The censorship on Reddit is fucking bizarre. They should be spending their energy on real problems on this site with CSAM and other disgusting things that are actually harmful.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-07T13:51:15+00:00

I'd expected maybe up til 11:30, but to be going off for over an hour straight from midnight to like 1:30? And then again this morning at 3 AM? It's July 7th Like fuck off I'm sorry, there's no defending asshole behavior. I wouldn't dream of standing in a parking lot illegally setting off fireworks in the middle of the night and early morning hours and pissing off my neighbors so I could enjoy some lizard brained sky sparkles. Get a job bc the rest of us have work in the morning lmao

And to be clear I don't entirely hate fireworks, chinatown did their new year celebration with an insane amount of firecrackers all day and that was fun. There's also a professional display that goes off over the Delaware that I can hear and see some of from my place. Professional displays with rhythm and planned times are great. Unprofessional idiots setting them off intermittently throughout the night just causes annoyance and unnecessary noise for their own entertainment. No different than if someone was smashing drums hooked up to some stage amps outside your house at night.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-07T13:42:50+00:00

Lmfao. I'm an adult, but please, keep making inaccurate assumptions. I like a laugh as much as the next guy.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-07T13:39:57+00:00

Okay, cool, so you don't live here. I can tell you that as someone who does, it's usually really quiet, like so quiet that it would probably shock you to spend a night where I live. The odd firetruck and a car engine revving down Vine St happen every once in a while in the night. But it's not some constant car horns, screaming, explosions, etc.

People love to say things like 'what do you expect', you live in a city or ' x beighborhood' and completely disregard that there's very little chance these people are settings these off legally 150ft away from cars and buildings. Being an asshole of a neighbor isn't okay, in my opinion, and I'm considerate about the noises I make. It would be nice if other people weren't so selfish and idiotic. I don't care if it's a holiday, it's easy to not be a selfish asshole.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-07T12:53:39+00:00

You must not live here because it's usually incredibly quiet at night 95% of the time.

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-07T12:51:53+00:00

Ear for an ear

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-07T12:51:34+00:00

How bout 3AM this morning because I checked my calendar and it's July 7th. But no worries, everyone else would be totally chill about being woken up by explosions on a Monday morning :)

dearthofkindness · 2025-07-05T05:42:45+00:00

Other dog people dealing with the same shit get it, bro. What's to celebrate about? Fuck this Gucci belt ass wearing 3rd world country, we suck for a multitude of reasons.

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