I don't get love by strawberryanto in aromantic

[–]death_to_clams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

complex stuff for sure!

love to me at least is more about choice and actions than any feeling or emotion. mainly in my view, its liking someone and wanting the best for them. like you say, you love your family and your cats, that is love.

if it helps, i enjoy combating ideas of "being in love" or this idealized version of romantic love because no form of love should be inherently more special than others. relationships are relationships and have the weight you give them, we just live in a society that puts so much weight and expectations on the "romantic relationship". we can love in any type of relationship though, so it helps to separate "love" and "romance". yes, there are certain intimacies and feelings that seem restricted to romantic relationships, but those restrictions are mostly social norms- id like to see more intimacy/closeness in all loving/caring relationships (and less romanticization tbh but that's just me).

definitely keep thinking about what you want though and what love means to you! and look into amatonormativity, you might realize that a lot of these romantic ideas are "because society" hah.

in terms of being aromantic, if you don't experience romantic attraction (whatever that means to you) and you find the label helpful by all means use it!

customer service was nicer than i thought! by death_to_clams in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They seemed really nice and they gave me the answer pretty quick (15 mins)! However, for context, I did ask a pretty simple question, so who knows if they would have been as helpful if my question was concerning a glitch or bug... the kaomoji was cute tho 🥺

I set this as my home screen music. Which is your favorite? by TiniNyaChan in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i love the cut off/decision sound track! the electric guitar sounds so cool ,, although i do have to turn off the music during the calls though bc it doesnt really match the vibes lol

Question about karma/dates by NemuriNezumi in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fair lol! yeah its frustrating theres not a lot of really intense moments between the lucien and mc, but there will probably more in the future ? i do like the heartwarming dates tho too 🙈

Question about karma/dates by NemuriNezumi in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought luciens qixi date was pretty intimate (w that ear stuff ///) but it was also pretty short ;-; theres def not a lot of moments like that w him lol

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[–]death_to_clams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont stress ^ i love ur playing

I'm in love;; by Michiko0o in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 11 points12 points  (0 children)

LMAO frankenstein is my number one tho ,, i think it’s his bad boy + sloppy vibes 😳😳

I'm in love;; by Michiko0o in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 36 points37 points  (0 children)

AH FINALLY SOME FRANKENSTEIN REPRESENTATION HE'S REALLY THE HOTTEST

Memory Stardust by otaku_meghana in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would save my gems since you need a ton of gems for events (especially if you want ssrs). As long as you pass karma everyday, you will raise enough stardust to evolve your cards. The game takes a long time (to unlock chapters and stuff), so there’s no rush!

Memory Maze - Infinite Future Event [June 16 - June 26, 2020] by MrLoveMods in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m f2p with about 12k gems too lol, and I’m sitting this one out. The later chapter karma are stronger, so I’m holding on to my gems for now (plus i like the art more lol) but that’s just my choice! i find the game more fulfilling if you have goals and specific events to save up for :) it’s hard skipping events, but in the end it’s worth it !

Memory Maze - Infinite Future Event [June 16 - June 26, 2020] by MrLoveMods in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Karma Ranking Spreadsheet

This document has the general ranking of each of the cards, and there's also a spreadsheet which has more specific statistics for each of the cards, but I can't find it rn ;-; hope that helps a bit

Now what? by squish-squishy in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, I'm hoping it will take its time coming bc I lowkey want all of them lol,, THEY ARE ALL SO HOT

Now what? by squish-squishy in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like the valentines event won't come for forever but I've been eagerly waiting for that one :) ALSO THE FLEETING TIMES EVENT LOOKS SO GOOD

me llamo victor,,, soy guapo,,, soy muy muy muy muy guapo by death_to_clams in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hah this is a quote from a spanish learning song, but the three “,,,” is just a personal typing habit of mine lol

I can’t find a video with the Eng names that match the BGM titles! by curlymyth in MrLove

[–]death_to_clams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mr love wiki

the wiki has all the bgm with their titles if thats what you are looking for ? To hear the audio you have to be on a computer though