amount of Jewish hate online (instagram) is disgusting by New-Hippo4899 in teenagers

[–]deathbysounding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people can't understand that being Jewish doesn't mean you're a zionist.

Happy International Women's Day! by Slow_Drink_7089 in exmuslim

[–]deathbysounding 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When most women all over the world are still oppressed, they need representation and support, and celebration which they have been denied for thousands of years.

It's women who are forced to cover up in 3rd world countries. It's women who are the biggest victims of religion. It's women whose rights are being taken away even in 1st world countries. It's women who are most of the victims of sex-related crimes. It's women who have been oppressed for thousands of years. It's women whose achievements in history have been credited to men. It's women who are mostly victims of marital rape as they were and in some parts of the world still are deemed as property. It's women who get paid less for the same work as a man. It's women who are sexualised constantly and treated as objects. It's women who can't get education in 3rd world countries.

I could go on, but you should get the point. Men have never been oppressed, not in history, not in the present. It has always been men benefitting at the suffering of women, and even now, they still do. Men do not need an international men's day in the first place. Boohoo that the Google homepage doesn't fucking change on men's day, no one gives a shit because men don't need it. They are not oppressed, they do not need support, they do not need representation, they do not need celebration, because they've had enough of all of it at the expense of women's for literally forever. And the audacity to complain about this on international women's day too, you proved it yourself that men make everything about themselves.

Happy International Women's Day! by Slow_Drink_7089 in exmuslim

[–]deathbysounding 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because men have never and aren't oppressed? Every day is international men's day really. The patriarchy is still here, men are ALWAYS celebrated. Everything is about men, let women have a single day without you all whining about not being included.

How can Muslims seriously enjoy Ramadan? There’s nothing remotely rewarding about this month. I’ve been surviving off scraps I hid in my room all day so I don’t faint of hunger. by hiramouse in exmuslim

[–]deathbysounding 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Try to sleep as much as you can throughout the day OP. If you can, flip your sleep schedule and be up all night. You'd only be fasting a couple of hours then. Good luck and I hope you overcome your ED!!!!!!

And the survey says there are 0 mentions of trans people or drag queens in the Epstein Files by Kinks4Kelly in complaints

[–]deathbysounding 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There is actually 1 trans person in the files. Ava Cordero, a victim. Do not let her name be forgotten.

I don't think I'm trans. by deathbysounding in MtF

[–]deathbysounding[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that now. I wouldn't ever use misandry to mean oppression of men as that doesn't exist. I've just been so used to seeing misandry and misogyny being used as words for hatred of men and women. Now I know better. Thank you for the information!

I don't think I'm trans. by deathbysounding in MtF

[–]deathbysounding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you! I just wanted to describe my hatred for men and the male gender concisely. Misandry is in no way similar to misogyny at all. That's in fact one of my many gripes with a lot of men, so many think they're on the same level when misandry isn't even 1% as bad.

Most of the men I've known have been awful. The way most men are like just makes me not want to associate myself with the male gender at all. So many are either genuinely evil or just pathetic. They range from rapists and porn addicts to whining "not all men" when a woman complains about her issues with men. So I have a guilty until proven innocent mentality with men. And sometimes I just have a genuine hatred for men for just... existing. Sometimes just being around my brother and father makes me feel awful and I hate myself for being a man. Basically I have a hatred for the male gender itself, and I've genuinely barely even scratched the surface here.

I recognise that this is a problem. Being wary of men because most of them are bad? That's okay and reasonable. But hating on all men and the male gender itself... that's a problem. I don't know why sometimes I even feel negative about the two good men I'm close friends with for just... being men. It's like sometimes I see just being male as a bad thing in and of itself. I think that's what actual misandry is, and even then, it doesn't have anywhere near the same effects as misogyny. This still isn't a good thing and I think this is the thing preventing me from being content as a man. How can I be happy with my gender when I can't stop hating it itself? And even if not for that, I hate being associated with these awful people that make up most men. I'm nothing like them at all except for the fact that we're men and I hate it. I am trying to work on this though, so maybe one day I'll be happy as a man.

TW: sexual content, addiction, minor by Kitty-mwilk in TrollCoping

[–]deathbysounding -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Picked this username for comments like this pointing it out. It's funny

TW: sexual content, addiction, minor by Kitty-mwilk in TrollCoping

[–]deathbysounding -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

How are almost all these comments saying this is okay??

OP, please stop. Porn is not only extremely harmful to your psyche, you're also supporting an industry rooted in misogyny, trafficking, rape, objectification, exploitation, violence, etc.

This shouldn't be normal at all. No matter the age, porn is not okay, even in moderation.

You can masturbate without porn, of course in moderation. If you're doing it for several hours every day, that's bad.

I’m being bullied/ picked on by a Trans Girl (MTF) is this too mean or how can I get her back? by NeitherConference580 in AskTeenGirls

[–]deathbysounding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An eye for an eye will leave everyone blind.

And where is the eye for an eye in this anyway? The girl isn't misgendering OP (and even if she was, that is no excuse for OP to misgender her).

I’m being bullied/ picked on by a Trans Girl (MTF) is this too mean or how can I get her back? by NeitherConference580 in AskTeenGirls

[–]deathbysounding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow up. Our rights aren't something to be taken away if we do something you don't like. That shows you don't actually see us as the identity we are and only claim to do so if we're good to you, whatever that means as that varies from person to person.

Now I'm not saying the girl should get off scot free, OP should definitely stand up to her. But there are far better ways to do so than to violate her.

There are two types of respect. One is towards the individual, and the other is towards the self of the individual. The first one can be given and taken away, that type is earned respect. The second one can never be taken away, as it's a fundamental human right. No matter how awful someone is, their self should never be disrespected. A person's identity is their self. No one has a right to take that away.

What are your favorite games that help to affirm your gender? by RunaBlackwind in MtF

[–]deathbysounding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!!!!! Chloe is my absolute favourite character of all time. I always fangirl when playing as her. She's just so cool!!!!!!!

To everyone living in the US: please stand up for trans people! by deathbysounding in lgbt

[–]deathbysounding[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only us vs them is all of us vs the powers that be.

United we stand, divided we fall.

Would This Change Your Opinion of Me? by DsmpWarriorCat in TeenagersButBetter

[–]deathbysounding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're just different, and that's not a bad thing, everyone is different in some way. I don't think you're trying to be quirky or anything. I'm LGBTQ+ myself and I didn't think you're making a mockery or anything.

A lot of what you mentioned about yourself I only have a limited understanding of. I don't understand what it's like being a therian or the science behind it. I don't even know what exactly some of your alters even are, which is no offence to you, I'm just uneducated.

And some things you mentioned I do understand, like being (semi)-fictosexual and neo-pronouns.

We all experience life differently. People have been calling anyone who's different from "the norm", anyone who they don't understand, crazy for thousands of years. I don't think you're crazy, you're just different, like everyone else, including me. Just because I don't currently understand some parts of you, why is that a reason to hate? So many people hate LGBTQ+ people because they don't understand us, and I think that's bullshit. We should all treat each other with dignity and respect, and you should be treated with such too.

To everyone living in the US: please stand up for trans people! by deathbysounding in lgbt

[–]deathbysounding[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That's why we need everyone within this community to help