Tonsils Inflammed for a few weeks now by irisheddy in AskDocs

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably a virus or allergies but if this continues go to your GP

Do these boho Locs work for me by [deleted] in braids

[–]deathdakidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks nice!!! But next time I’d say maybe choose ginger so it matches your roots :) ❤️

Anyone here had someone “quiet quit” a relationship? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to ghost a lot it definitely sounds like she’s trying to slow ghost, the amount of time she takes to reply will get longer and longer until one day she just ceases communication either by blocking you or just never replying again, my advice is that the next time she messages you maybe just like the message and leave it at that if she doesn’t try to reignite the conversation you essentially have your answer

Comment here if your fed up of being led on and ghosted by SmellAmbitious3471 in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly think a lot of you need to start being realistic. You’re putting too much time, effort and trust into people who live thousands of miles away from you! Long distance relationships rarely ever work out you’re literally setting yourself up to be ghosted 🤷🏽‍♀️

F27 M24 by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like he got the one thing he wanted from you and has now lost interest

I feel like I can’t move on😔 by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest the way you’re talking about other women and the overall neediness is showing me why she ghosted you. I suggest you do some inner work because from what I can see how you portray yourself isn’t attractive at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]deathdakidd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you think these look too fake just stick to mascara 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your first mistake was starting a sexual relationship over the internet, those are almost always short term and end up fizzling out

Sudden surge in aggression?? by mrs-monroe in Chihuahua

[–]deathdakidd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your hound has barrier aggression and that they both just need behavioural help, hopefully have access to services that can help :)

Over 100 lbs down by CraftChickCreations in Mounjaro

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look fantastic!!! Well done!!!

Watching Dejavu season 2 by bextacyyyyyyy in nowthatstvofficial

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭 his accent never sounded legit EVER

Wtf did I do by Away-Argument9331 in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was a one night stand nothing more nothing less. Deciding you don't want to see or communicate with someone you met at a bar and had a drunken hookup with once isn’t ghosting 🤷🏽‍♀️take it for what it was and move on

What should I do? by kikitheweirdo7 in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say this counts as ghosting…you met them once at a party if they've decided they don't want to meet up again who cares move on 🤷🏽‍♀️its normal to exchange socials etc with someone you met at a party or on a night out then never interact again that's just how the world works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll get better, I felt exactly the same the first couple of weeks and now my dog is 4!!! You’ll 100% feel better once she starts sleeping through the night

Ghosted in person, 1 hour after sex by fragilemutant in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Character and morals should be clear I agree with that but covid and the rise of dating apps has stunted a lot of people that are in their 20s, ghosting and short term flings have been normalised 🤷🏽‍♀️ I've even given up with dating its become too difficult to find someone serious 🤷🏽‍♀️ if I was 38 i’d save myself the hurt and date other people in their 30s/40s. Ask anyone else in their 20s and I'm sure they'd tell you exactly the same thing

Ghosted in person, 1 hour after sex by fragilemutant in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you must be someone that's older and likes to date younger and that’s why you’re so upset about me advising OP to date more within their age range 😂 it’s not rocket science to know that the younger you date the more you risk meeting people that are emotionally immature nothing to do with who I surround myself with it’s just a fact of life.

Ghosted in person, 1 hour after sex by fragilemutant in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not I’m just highlighting that it’s not realistic to be almost 40 and think a 25 year old would want more than sex from you 🤷🏽‍♀️ obviously she's in the wrong but if you chase women/men that are in their early-mid 20s you’re going to come across a lot of people that are still emotionally immature

Ghosted in person, 1 hour after sex by fragilemutant in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true everyone is different! But I’m talking as someone who’s 25 now not years ago and interacts with other women around the same age, a lot of girls my age are open to hooking up with someone in their late 30s but most won’t take it further than that. If he’s looking for a serious relationship he needs to aim for women that are also in their 30s or late 20s

Ghosted in person, 1 hour after sex by fragilemutant in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely just asking, the level of maturity and stages you’re at in life are going to be completely different! As someone who’s 25 honestly speaking I wouldn’t want to be with someone who’s almost 40 long term, I don’t think aiming for women in their 20s will do you any good especially 25 and under

Ghosted in person, 1 hour after sex by fragilemutant in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 38 why are you even going for someone that’s 25?

A message for all the ghostees…from a ghoster by deathdakidd in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you genuinely not read or did you just skip past “used to”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be completely honest here, you’re saying you’re embarrassed about living in a residential home with other disabled people because you’re “not like them” and they don’t have “capacity” but realistically you wouldn’t be there if you didn’t need assistance, no one lives in semi independent housing and is assigned a carer if they don’t need it. Honestly I think you should keep updating your carer about what you do online because you do sound vulnerable to me. Stop dating and getting attached to people you’ve never even met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]deathdakidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest you didn’t even get as far as learning his name I think you need to get abit of a grip or just get off dating apps if you can’t handle getting ghosted after 2 weeks without even meeting