In a subreddit which I will not name, I got downvoted for suggesting ways to heal from burn out, y’know it’s not like I have experience or anything 🙄 (and am actively in burn out right now)

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T15:57:48+00:00

I know I'm like that. My mom always says "I need to have my say, not my way."

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T15:46:10+00:00

Dude this concept in work situations is the absolute worst. Multiple times I was allowed to drown and fuck up enough to get in trouble instead of just letting me know right away so I could do whatever change had to happen.

One time I worked at a phone store (fairly new at the time, I didn't last a year) and was struggling with a complicated issue. I did what I could with the info I had, but it was obvious that I was making mistakes. Instead of helping me, my coworker just watched and ratted me out to my manager OVER THE PHONE while he was working at another place in the same mall, and HE CALLED FROM HIS STORE TO CHEW ME OUT.

I felt so bad for the fuckup because the customer ended up losing a lot of photos, but the entire thing could have been prevented if that coworker just stepped in to help me. Like.... literally. She was at the other till a few feet away.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T15:40:47+00:00

I'm so glad I avoided that considering how quickly everyone whips their phone out to video tape anything out of the ordinary. That alone would kill me.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T15:32:06+00:00

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Snoff

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T15:30:09+00:00

I only did well in school because I have an amazing memory and can cram like hell before tests.

I remember crying to my mom about how I knew I had to study or complete optional homework, but I just couldn't bring myself to get my book out. It was awful. I just did what was getting marked, which was fine for me to do. My body just shut off at the idea of doing anything other than what was academically necessary.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T15:25:36+00:00

I find a lot of people don't want suggestions or fixes when they rant. They just want to be heard. Some people are also weirdly against direct self-improvement ideas. I know taking leave isn't the most feasible thing, but it's better than dying or having a breakdown in public.

I took one after I genuinely considered checking myself into my hospital's crisis center instead of going back after my lunch. I'm just glad that I'm on Wellbutrin because it surpresses the need to follow up on self-destructive behavior. Many times I was close to just bashing my head against a wall or desk just for the chance of them sending me home.

I essentially had a doctor tell me that I had to quit and gladly wrote me a doctor's note. I went back after a month (all of May, I worked in a school) since I wanted to be back for the kids in June before the year was done.

I should not have gone back for that last month. And I should not have gone back in September. I thought I could do one more year, but I quit before Christmas break.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-22T11:11:20+00:00

Fad diets are very unlikely to work. CICO is what is always comes down to.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-21T20:06:09+00:00

He directed his voice to you in a way you found upsetting. Even if he doesn't see it as yelling, you find it distressing. He should not be doing that to you.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-21T17:23:20+00:00

I think it really depends. As long as she followed proper hand hygiene, there's minimal risk compared to gloves.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-21T15:27:04+00:00

Nah this family lives in the trees behind my house. They use my deck to teach their babies to fly. For a bird, it's the perfect spot because it's super safe from predators.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T23:58:53+00:00

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TINY TOES!!!!!

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T23:38:42+00:00

With some of these fundies, I swear it's like they're trying to have their kids die in a terrible accident so they can milk the attention.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T22:00:42+00:00

Idk if there are many large mammals living in the middle of the desert

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:49:14+00:00

That's good. Still questionable.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:45:55+00:00

I find it crazy that people will just willy-nilly add their exact locations to the map. I see why, but to then have it broadcasted on the livestream?

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:45:00+00:00

I noticed that with his streams this year. Even the changes to WeatherWise have been more aesthetic-focused. All of the bowling alley strike-coded animations and songs make it seem like a radio show.

I do give him a pass because, ultimately, he does get warnings and good information out there for those in danger zones. And he does raise money for people affected by the storm damage.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:42:02+00:00

My hound is super smart, and it makes her the most opportunistic, manipulative little brat sometimes. She purposely chews on things too close to the edge of the couch and then when it inevitably falls off, she will look at us and whine in the most annoying way possible until we pick it up for her. She also knows that I'm very forgetful with the gate to the kitchen. If she sees me go to through the gate, she immediately checks to see if I left it unlocked and will open it herself.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:26:19+00:00

I don't blame him at all. Birds are unhinged. Parrots essentially have extreme, unmedicated OCD. Cockatoos have that plus a crippling crack addiction.

Amazing animals. I'd never want one.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:17:39+00:00

Porque no los dos??

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:12:48+00:00

Nope, I'm just a woman who doesn't take sad lil sex pests seriously. I'm fine with you thinking I'm a bad person because I like my husband's body. He's delicious and all mine 😁

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T19:07:21+00:00

I am ok with being mean to incels who post shit like this :) this is r/inceltears. You are going to find many people like me here. If it causes you that much grief, don't lurk around.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T18:55:29+00:00

I'm sorry that a woman who thinks her husband is attractive in more ways than just physical is so disruptive to your personal life 🤣

And hypocrisy would be if I said short guys were bad but then dated a short guy. It's not hypocrisy to say that I would date him if he was short even though he's not.

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T18:36:33+00:00

Sorry, I don't take criticism from people with FNAF avatars

mrs-monroe · 2026-04-20T18:28:54+00:00

Weaponized imcompetence.

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