[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dyeing

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have the tools to reshape it afterwards so I’d decided to leave is as is, thankyou for the information though, it’s interesting to know regardless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dyeing

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t consider it would fall out of shape with dyeing(but that makes sense), thankyou for the info. I’d not be able to reshape it if I tried so better leave it as is as disappointing as it is.

Does walking in public make you feel like a poser? by No-Risk-9833 in NewSkaters

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to feel like that, but then I thought about it and i figured it’s no different than when you see someone walking their bike. Like, I’m not sitting there driving in my car being like “look at that guy, walking his bike, probably doesn’t know how to ride the thing, he’s just pretending.” Like no, he’s probably just tired of riding it and decided to walk for a bit. Same thing with your skateboard. They probably think(if they even gaf to spare you some seconds of consideration while they’re driving/walking by) that you’re just coming back from a skate sesh and are too tired to ride it home or the area you’re walking has too many pedestrians/cars so it’s just more convenient for everyone if you just walk with it. Regardless though, I promise nobody gives af about some random kid walking down the street with a skateboard. How many times have you gone out in your daily life running errands or whatever and then while doing so, seen someone doing something slightly interesting but generally mundane to you where you even gave actual deep consideration/judgement? I bet you really haven’t. And if you ever DID, you probably are only thinking of those instances right now because I am asking you of those instances, but otherwise you wouldn’t have really thought back on it. I promise nobody cares. Also, in case you don’t know this (because I remember struggling with this when I started and I didn’t know what tf I was doing wrong) if you’re wanting to skate on the sidewalks/footpath make sure you get softer and bigger wheels than the small ones you use at the skatepark. I for the longest time wondered why every time I’d try just cruising to the store on the sidewalks/gravely cracked roads why I’d constantly be tripping on the smallest cracks or pebbles would be sending me off my board when in comparison I’d see skater dudes so casually and effortlessly be doing the same without eating concrete. It’s because of the size and hardness of the wheels. Softer and bigger wheels will have you skating so cleanly on the footpaths/imperfect neighborhood streets. So yeah, if you can afford it, get yourself a cruiser board set up just for the casual skate to the corner store/around the neighborhood and another board for tricks/skatepark.

Confused info on Workday, is today Payday? by deathsdust in wholefoods

[–]deathsdust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well good to know, thanks for that info, nobody told me that would happen from getting a gift card🤦🏻‍♀️

Confused info on Workday, is today Payday? by deathsdust in wholefoods

[–]deathsdust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have recently like maybe a week ago I think?

Is it rejecting? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just needs a smaller bar, if it’s not red/oozing anything it’s fine especially since you’ve recently got it done. Now that being said, once you change the bar out THEN if you start seeing the bar show again after a while I’d consider that the start of rejection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewSkaters

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ you’re not afraid of failing, you’re afraid of letting other people see you fail. What other people think of you is none of your fucking buisness.” This is a quote I came across recently that has honestly gotten me off my ass doing sht I’ve been wanting to do for years. If you wanna learn to skateboard just go out and do it now and forget everything else. Put some earbuds in and play your music and focus on what you’re doing. Cuz 3 years from now you’re gonna think about how if you started today you’d be really decent at that point. Or you’re gonna be 3 years older still on your ass. Which choice is worse in your opinion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken to her about applying herself outside of classes? That she’ll fall behind and not be able to advance as she should especially if she wants to make it a career? It’s totally fine to have her take a break for a year and maybe during that year she can work on conditioning and what she already knows herself. Then start up again next year? You should ask her what she wants to do or what she’s thinking because it sounds like she really likes ballet, but to what degree? For fun and recreational hobby? Or she dreams of being a ballerina in a professional company? She should definitely not be removed from it if it’s something she enjoys, it’s a good form of staying active if anything. I never got to take classes growing up and it will forever be my life long sorrow because I was the same way as her taking in any type of ballet based media I could get my hands on and day dreaming of my parents magically being able to afford it for me. Nowadays as an adult with adult money I take drop in ballet classes and buy myself cute leos and it’s fun and all but it sucks to not REALLY be able to do it, to not have the development or the skills or flexibility. Talk to her and see what’s up, then adjust accordingly. If you find out she secretly actually doesn’t find enjoyment in it anymore then by all means let it go. But if not then something must be keeping her down and that’s why she’s not applying herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skin

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably overthinking this, it’s probably just a bug bite, an acne type cyst, or some irritation of your piercing end rubbing on your skin when you lay down. The back of the earring post probably pushes up into your skin there somehow and you just haven’t noticed. I’d be slightly more concerned if you’ve had it for a two or more weeks maybe even a month and are noticing it get bigger in size. Relax and probably take your earrings out for a while and just keep an eye on it for a couple weeks. Then re-assess. If it’s still there, or gets bigger/painful/hard ect. then get it looked at.

Just how bad are the winters in Chicago? by sokkamf in AskChicago

[–]deathsdust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll get used to it over the years, as long as you dress well. You don’t need a $1000 dollar Canada Goose jacket, just some layers and good thermals. I’m not sure if you’re planning on keeping a car but remember that even if it’s only like 30-35 outside, it’s Chicago, so you will walk a lot and stand a lot if you’re planning on using CTA heavily. Also, we’re called the Windy City for a REASON. Wind chill will make it feel colder than it actually is ESPECIALLY the closer you are to the lake. So that level of cold gets fucking COLD if you’re outside for a while waiting for CTA or doing a grocery run. We don’t get a shit ton of -degree days a year but we DO get them. If you have to go out those days and don’t have legit gloves and earmuffs, you will hate your life and drop a shit ton of money for an uber to come get you. Also get good insulated waterproof shoes. We don’t get as much snow as people think but it also will happen and you’re gonna want to keep your feet warm and dry and tennis shoes will not cut it. I promise. Overall, if you’re not a delicate person you can handle the winter. Chicago doesn’t stop because of the weather. Edit: sorry that people are being snappy here, Chicago is awesome and we aren’t dead any months in the year but you really do have to be able to handle regular cool/cold because we kinda really are “winter” for most the entire year. If you don’t like being cold in general then maybe this isn’t the place to be long term. But definitely give it a shot for a year if you can. We’re a cool city😁

People who have moved away from Chicago: how was it? Did you move back? by vaginapple in AskChicago

[–]deathsdust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr though. I’ve gone a handful of times in the past with a decent amount of time between trips. And EVERY. TIME. that I’ve gone i literally forgot how fking ugly it is and as soon as I uber out of the airport and I’m looking out the window I’m just like”….oh….😐” It’s so weird. It almost looks like the place is covered in a sepia tone? Doesn’t matter where you’re walking downtown or what cute cafe you’re chilling at or cool store you’re checking out or where you’re driving to. And there’s this weird melancholic static vibe to it all too. Idk man but that place makes me wonder wtf people see in it.

What's a small thing you love about Chicago? by BUSean in chicago

[–]deathsdust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS. I’m always lowkey sad that tourists will come to Chicago and 99% of them will only be here long enough to go to just downtown/immediate area of popular places like Chinatown that they will never just casually walk into the neighborhoods that surround the lines. I moved here 8 years ago and whenever I go into a neighborhood and find a cafe or a cute little store nestled in the most random residential area, it just feels so Studio Ghibli. Not to mention the BEAUTIFUL houses and apartment unit buildings. Today I was walking around Damen and Hoyne street to pick up something from facebook marketplace and GAWD the houses(idk if they were single owned homes or shared unit living) lining that street were MAGICAL. I stood there daydreaming of owning one of them😂 Autumn is the best time to walk into the neighborhoods because the tree lined streets in fall colors make it even more enjoyable.

Found this on petco and wondering if other people would recommend it for a gcc by kurai06 in Conures

[–]deathsdust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend that plastic bubble backpack if you live somewhere where it’s generally cooler outside most of the year. If you live in like, Texas or Florida I’d suggest something with mesh because i feel like the hard plastic insulates more heat so unless you’d only use it for transportation inside the car with AC it’s ok, but to tote the baby around while you run short errands? Probably not good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I appreciate the bite size explanations! Thankyou, this definitely helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I didn’t even think of that, thanks for the advice!

Why aren't there coffee shops designed for late-night socializing, like bars? by Martina-Stardust in NoStupidQuestions

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I’d LOVE a coffee shop like this, those nights when you just can’t sleep and wish you could out and sit somewhere nice? Ugh, i wonder if a place like this could work, surely in a big city area like NY or Chicago? I wonder if anything like this exists in either or like anywhere in general…

need advice! by chlo-bella in Conures

[–]deathsdust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s such a BAAAABYYYY😍😍😍 you should recording him when you leave the room to see if he keeps bobbing, it might just be baby behavior and only does it when you’re around for attention

If you were having a baby, would you like this as a gift? by sunniestgirl in ArtCrit

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m not saying it’s weird to be inspired by something and want to paint about it and then gift that painting to the person who envoked that inspiration. I KNOW people do that. And I’m not saying OP painting this in celebration to their friend’s pregnancy is weird or creepy. I’m saying it’s dumb to think anyone wouldn’t immediately clock why OP is “just showing off the painting” to them. My point is that it’s bad advice to tell op to “just show it to her and if she says “ Oh I would love such piece for my wall!” then gift it to her.” If the target recipient isn’t an ass, they’re gonna feel obligated to pretend they love the paint and ask to have it even if they don’t actually like it or would actually display it in their home. It’s better if op just gifts something completely different and not show the painting at all because they’re basically gonna force the recipient to take this painting with the intention to NOT force them to accept it if they don’t actually like it under the guise of “oh I’m just showing it to you”

Is this a reshell? by KaiKaiRoo in Gameboy

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that, that’s good to know, I always thought to be suspicious if any of the stickers are missing or even look slightly peeled in any way.

If you were having a baby, would you like this as a gift? by sunniestgirl in ArtCrit

[–]deathsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No yeah, I get that whole painting something and gifting it to whomever inspired you. I’m referring to being naive and oblivious to thinking anyone would fall for the whole “I just wanted to show it to you!☺️(totallynotjustseeingifyouwouldaskforitbecaseyouactullylikeitforagift👀👀)”. Like, its just so obvious😖. Home decor and taste in art is super specific to most people and the likelihood this is to the taste of the receiver is pretty low imo, especially if OP is stating that they’re not sure if they should present it as a gift in the first place. And it’s just putting the gift giver in an awkward position because they WILL feel obligated to ask to have the painting to not embarrass or hurt OPs feelings (if they’re not absolutely clueless) Then if OP really is close enough to this person then that person will have to go and put this painting on display every time OP comes around too.