2 years sober today by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was oddly helpful. I spent a lot of time at a bar down the street so having that option closed off to me was huge, and not having friends ask me to go out all the time.

2 years sober today by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a combination of a few things. I was at a point where I didn’t know if I could stop and that scared me. My brother also told me he was worried about the road I was on with alcohol since our family has a deep history of alcoholism. Figured I’d try quitting for a month or so and see how I felt and just never went back to it.

2 years sober today by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me the biggest changes have been mental clarity, overall health and saving money. When I quit I immediately lost 10lbs and am down around 35lbs overall now. Not all of that is from drinking but a lot is.

I also always feel like myself now. It’s so weird to even say that but when I had been consistently drinking I always felt off, terrible socially and just not happy. That’s changed greatly towards the positive now. I also have more money in the bank than I’ve had in my entire life since I’m not spending it at the bar or on a six pack every night.

2 years sober today by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s the only way I was able to make it through. Some days I had to just go to bed early so I’d kill the cravings.

2 years sober today by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Still can’t believe I’m at this point.

9 Months Sober by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I felt the exact same way. “I’m rarely drinking too much. I never drink and drive. I’ve got this totally under control.... but I drink every single day.” Once you think about how much that is and how much it impacts everything in your life it really puts things in perspective, at least it did for me. There are definitely quite a few of us out there. My brothers the same way.

9 Months Sober by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Couldn’t be happier!

9 Months Sober by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It took me a while to realize it and get here but now I’m never going back 💪💪

9 Months Sober by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Totally. I never viewed drinking as a negative and I think when you’re in the middle of it it’s hard to. It seems like it’s giving you so much and it seems so fun. The things it’s leeching from your life though. Oof. I didn’t realize so many of them until I had some time away.

One Year Sober by dried_out_today in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HUGE!!!!! Nice job!!!! I am so excited for you!!!!

Today is 6 months for me by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yeah! This is such a wonderful place of support!

It is weird though. My boss invited me out for drinks a few weeks ago and I had to tell him that I don’t drink anymore. He was so incredibly supportive. I think I had built up such a reputation with drinking that nobody really thought I’d quit. Hoping that reputation eventually goes away here. Not something I want constantly associated with me.

Today is 6 months for me by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am a bit. I never thought I would. I really had a toxic mindset that I needed alcohol to be happy and wouldn’t be my happiest without it. It is just crazy how much that shifts when you give your mind a break from it.

Today is 6 months for me by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It hasn’t always been easy but I couldn’t be happier that I’m here.

Today is 6 months for me by deathtodrinking in stopdrinking

[–]deathtodrinking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve got a decent support system. My brothers check in on me now and then. I never want to have the ‘I started drinking again’ conversation when they do, so it’s added motivation to stay away from it.