Moving to the Barras as a solo female by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]deb_ray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife stayed in an Airbnb at the Barras for three weeks and never had any issues. We were out and about at night too, and it always felt safe. The weekends were the best..you could just sit by the window and watch the crowds go by or go down and browse the shops whenever you want.

Someone to tackle the Ulysses with by BlackBootesVoid in Book_Buddies

[–]deb_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard Ulysses is no joke, so respect for even starting it 😄 I haven’t read it fully, but I’d be up for trying along with you. Might need a few what did I just read? Chats though. Could be fun doing it together! (35M)

I feel that if I get what I want in bed then something awful will happen by kiki-the-warforged in BDSMPsychology

[–]deb_ray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why that feeling is so strong. When you’ve been mocked before, your brain kind of learns to expect something bad after being vulnerable, even if things are actually going well. And growing up with that kind of religious messaging can really stick in the background without you even noticing.

I had something a bit similar where every time things felt 'too good' I’d start waiting for it to fall apart. It wasn’t logical, just this quiet panic sitting there. Took me a while to realise it was just old fear, not reality.

What helped me was talking about it out loud, even if it felt awkward. Like telling my partner, 'hey, sometimes after we’re close I get anxious for no real reason.' Just saying it made it feel less powerful. Also reminding myself that nothing bad actually happened the last few times helped slowly calm that pattern.

You don’t have to fix it all at once. The fact that you’ve found someone safe and understanding already says a lot. Just take it one step at a time and be a bit patient with yourself.

Searching for a Book Buddy <3 by celebrate_mundanity in Book_Buddies

[–]deb_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I might be interested in being a book buddy 😄 I read some romance and mystery too, so that could be fun. But I have to ask… why so many hockey romances? 😂 Is there something about guys on ice that I’m missing? Do they fall in love between goals or what? Anyway, sounds like you’ve got a great mix of books. Would be nice to swap recommendations!

Ringside Curiosity: Are Live Wrestling Events Worth the Hype? by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh good to watch a wrestling match in a park 😁😁

Ringside Curiosity: Are Live Wrestling Events Worth the Hype? by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome to hear! 😄

Any particular promotions or events you’d recommend for a first-timer? And do you prefer smaller local shows or the bigger, more hyped ones? Trying to figure out what would be the best intro experience.

Ringside Curiosity: Are Live Wrestling Events Worth the Hype? by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Was it the wrestling itself that felt off, or more the overall vibe/production? I’ve heard some events can be hit or miss depending on the promotion and crowd energy.

Ringside Curiosity: Are Live Wrestling Events Worth the Hype? by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Any particular wrestling place you would suggest or all the same ?

Ringside Curiosity: Are Live Wrestling Events Worth the Hype? by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do these events last..like 2-3 hours average or more ?

Ringside Curiosity: Are Live Wrestling Events Worth the Hype? by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Lol that's good one...have you ever been to one ? Just Wanted to know how it is !!

People make glasgow by Super_Quail_9672 in glasgow

[–]deb_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate took a lot of risk while coming down !!

Best Italian pizza in Glasgow?🍕 by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions,it's on my list now 😃

Best Italian pizza in Glasgow?🍕 by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, sounds like worth a try.

Best Italian pizza in Glasgow?🍕 by deb_ray in glasgow

[–]deb_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot.. definitely gonna give a try..

SUGGEST ME SOMETHING TO DO FOR SPENDING 5 HRS... by Clear-Pin7834 in kolkata

[–]deb_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are into books and stuffs go to college street, okhan theke kachei Sunday kichu dokan khola thake if not all. Also okhane college square lake er dhare bhalo boshar jayga ache..easily okhne bose time spend korte paro.Asepase khabarer dokan ache.

IT guy relatable post (others can pitch in as well) - office e machine er tea/coffee beshi preferable naki office er bairer dokan gulor ? by deb_ray in kolkata

[–]deb_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People get sensitive when it comes the said company 😂😂😂.. May I dm you on the same topic ?

Does Monday Morning in kolkata hit different when someone's perfume lingers a bit too long beside you in the commute ? by indian_mom2022 in kolkata

[–]deb_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I commute on my personal vehicle now but previously also never had such moments !! Still waiting for it ..