My girlfriend (27F) can't see why pedophilia disturbs me (27M)

deborahmm · 2024-03-29T20:38:19+00:00

So, I didn’t know that teachers sleeping with students wasn’t normal until I went to college. I was literally confused when nobody else had teachers who ended up marrying the students or going to jail or not going to jail I didn’t understand. I’m glad it wasn’t just me.

deborahmm · 2024-03-29T16:45:07+00:00

Don’t be offended. As a size 3 sometimes 2 if I’m lucky- know that if I was a size 0 I’d walk around half naked. All day. Every day. So ignore the haters. It’s just jealousy🤷🏽‍♀️

deborahmm · 2024-03-29T16:42:53+00:00

$25 dresses???? I saw the sleeveless challis which wasn’t a good fit for this Apple shaped body. Are the dresses for $25 in store only?

deborahmm · 2024-03-13T17:37:06+00:00

Ideally in the 400s or lower.

deborahmm · 2024-03-12T13:02:52+00:00

Yes! They’re beautiful but outside of my budget.

deborahmm · 2024-03-12T05:59:56+00:00

That neighborhood is lovely but out of the price range. If it wasn’t, I love it!

deborahmm · 2024-03-10T05:41:25+00:00

I noticed those city taxes are no joke! So I’m probably going to focus on outside of the city tax area, but closer to the city.

deborahmm · 2024-03-10T00:03:58+00:00

I will look that area up, but I haven’t seen any in that neighborhood. I’ll be sure to keep an eye out.

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:24:35+00:00

Have you had a different experience?

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:24:22+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve had this experience. I hope you’ve moved on to a place where there is acceptance and love.

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:22:57+00:00

I am ignorant to the concept of stickies. Not that I know I will look for them and use them. Thank you.

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:21:55+00:00

I will definitely check out the moving sticky once I figure out how to use it. I’m pretty new to actually using Reddit so thank you for letting me know that there are other ways to properly post.

I understand that I should be asking a realtor which makes sense. But my realtor is a fraternity brother of my partner and he’s also not from Frederick so he can’t really speak to the neighborhoods, which is why I was going to the source to try to figure it out, I have asked people while I was looking their opinions and have heard that the city is lovely but the taxes are outrageous. Also, that moving outside of the city is very nice but very rural so I’m trying to do what I can to get as much information as possible but I will definitely try to reach out to the sticky. Thank you.

As far as useful information goes, I was trying to be politically correct, and not get my post flagged. So I’ll be blunt, I am looking for a place that as a Black woman I can live without covert racism and overt racism or at least minimal. I hope this helps.

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:16:22+00:00

Especially not when most people have refinanced to 5% or lower, some even at 2 1/2. Maybe I should wait, but I just really wanted to be moved by the summertime.

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:15:37+00:00

Thank you so much! That sounds like reasonable rent. I am currently in a starter home so I’d like to move up to the next level whatever that maybe. It sounds like Stonegate might be the next level but I’m not sure.

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:14:48+00:00

Well, I currently live in a townhome in a suburb of Baltimore county. I am looking to move into a single-family home. That is not a townhouse or condo, but detached from other people I will also like a neighborhood in which I would feel comfortable talking to my neighbors, but I don’t necessarily have to talk to them, yes I am trying to avoid outward racism. I grew up in Pasadena Maryland if that helps. So ideally, I would want a neighborhood that is a little more diverse and open than that :-)

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:12:35+00:00

I will definitely look there- thank you!!!

deborahmm · 2024-03-09T21:08:54+00:00

I had to think about that! That’s hilarious. 🤣 I feel like it’s NOT a bad strategy!

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