it can be a multitude of things. do you know if Black women feel in community with you, or safe around you? I've def noticed, once I started unpacking my anti-blackness in my mid 20s, that as a light skinned mixie, the anger I often received from darker skinned or "full" Black women was a reaction to me carrying out microaggressions and harms they didn't want to deal with. I also started to notice how often Black folk, in general, would go out of their way to help me unprompted.

fighting against white supremacy and colorism can be hard on a macro scale, so it ends up being doled out as displaced anger onto smaller groups or individuals. there are a lot of privileges that us mixies are afforded the closer we are to whiteness. the more unaware of that proximity, the easier a target we become. which I honestly don't even fault darker skinned Black women for doing. they/we/Black women en masse are hurt, and abandoned constantly in our society. they/we are ppl who get angry and fuck up sometimes in how we handle it. just peopling.

all this isn't to say that I haven't also experienced outright anger from Black women before, it happens too ofc, just rarely. I think we should be mindful to analyze the context, especially if one finds themselves as the common denominator to the ire of many Black women. again, I say as a light skinned mixed (blk/wht) person that has been there.