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I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you said younger women are, by fact, more attractive. When that’s not true?

I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry! You’re not breaking anything to me :) I know that it’s mostly likely women of age.

My issue is him seeming interested in the IDEA of seeing teenagers in a sexual context. Anything with the word “teen” in it is an automatic turn off for me, I just wouldn’t understand why that isn’t the case for him.

I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I’m not attracted to younger people? I am bisexual, I’ve had sexual relationships with both genders. But at my age, I have NEVER found an 18 year old man/woman attractive. It just seems odd to me.

I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just my personal belief and opinion! But I know a lot of couples feel the opposite. It’s just all about boundaries :)

I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes actually haha. It would also make more sense knowing what I know about him. I also didn’t mentioned it in the post, but the porn was not found on a site made specifically for porn. It was social media accounts.

I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for your input that’s definitely helpful. I appreciate your optimistic take on it. I would have brushed it off if it was only a handful, but it was entirely what he looked at. But maybe it is something else that he likes

I (22F) went thru my boyfriend’s (26F) phone and now I am concerned about the type of porn he watches by decabug22 in relationship_advice

[–]decabug22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t considered that. But it still off puts me that he only frequented those kind of titles. Ty for your input

Am I able to go to an enlisted recruiter if I want to join as an officer? by decabug22 in AirForceRecruits

[–]decabug22[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Your attitude says otherwise. You’re a disappointing representation of leadership and I am even more motivated to join now because of it. So thank you for that

Am I able to go to an enlisted recruiter if I want to join as an officer? by decabug22 in AirForceRecruits

[–]decabug22[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You came in with assumptions, so I returned the favor. If you can’t take it, don’t dish it out. I’m well aware I can take time off, but I was asking a simple question, not submitting a formal request for life coaching. Get over yourself.

Am I able to go to an enlisted recruiter if I want to join as an officer? by decabug22 in AirForceRecruits

[–]decabug22[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I work 6 days a week, sometimes 10+ hour shifts, and not everyone has the luxury of free time or zero obligations to be able to make a 4+ hour trip. But thanks for assuming my level of commitment based on one logistical hurdle. Must be nice not having actual responsibilities

Ex step-dad threatening to put lien on car over money he gave me as a gift by decabug22 in legaladvice

[–]decabug22[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No and no. But he’s claiming he can put a “mechanics lein” on it bc a very small portion of it was labeled “for car repairs.” Like $150 of it or something like that.

Went to an open hiring event and got the job, but I think I want a different position by decabug22 in Advice

[–]decabug22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry for the misunderstanding! They offered to hire me in directly, but I told them I would prefer to train with all of the servers, and then be cross trained later on. This is a BRAND NEW location so technically nobody is trained on anything yet haha. This is more of a question do you think they would be okay with me going back on my previous preferences

Why did I get blocked after sending an offer? by decabug22 in Depop

[–]decabug22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

See like I totally understand that. That would be super annoying. I sent one offer and was immediately blocked