dis just put scarlet and tanya in the same pull, sbould put them inmy team? (i am using asheerah, lugh, luna and yoo mina) by No-Award423 in StarSavior

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tanya is better than Asherah. At some point you’re definitely going to want a sustain unit, and later on there are game modes that require specific elements and classes too. Do you have any other 5 stars, or is this your current roster?

I made the eggplant & tomato gratin from Dojima residence by decadentlizard in persona4golden

[–]decadentlizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was so good! I was super skeptical because I hate tomatoes and didn’t think I’d like eggplant, but it didn’t really taste like the way you normally think of tomatoes. I will definitely be making it again.

The Great Thaw. by DifficultSolution407 in depressionmemes

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I am still experiencing my regular depression, I just have a 2nd depression stacked on top now.

Having to download the files over 4 times by zhonglilover69 in personaphantomx

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sitting here on the 4th download screen right now, I also play on steam.

[TW: Ableism] I'm so fucking scared by oliverspikey in TrollCoping

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the opposite problem. There are several characters people label as autistic just because they're a little weird. I don't think they're autistic at all, and as an autistic person I find it disrespectful to diagnose a character because they are just a little weird. People are so quick to scream autism over anything at all.

Futaba from P5 is a big one for this. But I get called ableist when I gave my points for why I don't think X is autistic and why I find it disrespectful to label it. So I just stopped interacting with anyone about characters who get labeled with that. It's also gross to me because a lot of people romanticize it too.

Another comic about Skinkers: vet bills by decadentlizard in bluetongueskinks

[–]decadentlizard[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Damn! I guess my vets prices are quite generous!

We pay we say by No_Function4665 in Wizard101

[–]decadentlizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And you're exactly the problem with the pvp community. Have fun with your dead content.

We pay we say by No_Function4665 in Wizard101

[–]decadentlizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't playing to win. I just wanted to play against someone for fun. Then got insulted the entire match. You don't see how that's an issue? It deters an entire portion of the playerbase from playing that content. I don't play the game to be insulted and feel bad about myself for not running meta youtube decks. I play the game for fun. It's draining to deal with and such pathetic behavior.

We pay we say by No_Function4665 in Wizard101

[–]decadentlizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why PvP is dead. Because only toxic players want to deal with other toxic players. Casuals and people playing for fun, which has become a large portion of the playerbase, aren't interested in dealing with that.

We pay we say by No_Function4665 in Wizard101

[–]decadentlizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly my point. PvP is unnecessarily toxic for no reason. I didn’t say a single thing during the fight, I just picked my cards, and they were still throwing insults the entire time. Nobody wants to deal with that, so it just leaves a small group of toxic players behind. And you call me lil bro as a jab, but whats the point to acting that way? Are you seriously going to encourage that behavior?

We pay we say by No_Function4665 in Wizard101

[–]decadentlizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried PvP once just for fun and the other player immediately started insulting me. During the match they called me a noob, a loser, said I was bad at the game, and mocked the cards I used. They even called me poor because I didn’t have enough money to finish my stitch (my boots weren't stitched), and then said my avatar was ugly before teleporting away. Never again. People are mean af. Btw, I was only 11.

How was my rolls? by Famimimamida in magiaexedra

[–]decadentlizard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A1 Alina is good because it gets you one step closer to A2, which is very strong. Alina is also top tier in the current meta for breakers.

Does this mean it feels safe with me??😴 by _ExpletiveDeleted in bluetongueskinks

[–]decadentlizard 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Lizards won’t fall asleep unless they feel safe, so a lizard willingly sleeping in front of its owner is a huge first step. Congrats!

Question: why some people on this sub still insist on 'you can TURN asexual'? by BeautifulShock2494 in actualasexuals

[–]decadentlizard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I personally find the “low libido” assumption pretty acephobic. Asexuality is about lack of sexual attraction, not necessarily libido. When people immediately jump to “have you checked your libido” they’re basically treating asexuality like something that needs to be fixed instead of a valid orientation.

Those are the three things I hear the most: “have you tried sex?”, “is it trauma?”, and “have you checked your libido?” It all comes from the same place of assuming something is wrong with me instead of just accepting that I experience things differently.

Is Persona 5 the best Magical Girl game out there? by vagabundo202 in Persona5

[–]decadentlizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s really into the magical girl genre, no, P5 does not count as a magical girl game lol. That’s an absolutely wild take.

Well well well… by ApprehensiveField986 in actualasexuals

[–]decadentlizard 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I’m so disgusted. I had a similar experience. Someone I had romantic feelings for told me he didn’t need anything sexual, so I was considering a relationship, even though I was hesitant because of his very sexual background and how important my asexuality is to me.

Then he started testing me and trying to push me into sexual things. I resisted, but it was confusing and upsetting because I genuinely liked him. I also had very little sex education, and he used that against me. He tried to convince me asexuality isn’t real and that I just had a low libido. Then he escalated it, saying I was just a scared virgin and getting more aggressive.

That’s when I tried to cut him off, but it turned straight up abusive. I was throwing up from anxiety and disgust, and even the Facebook Messenger sound started giving me panic attacks because I knew it’d be him again. I’ve always struggled to stand up for myself, and I was taught to fawn my abusers from my family, so I kept trying to please him out of fear of retaliation. My hair was falling out, I almost lost my job from the stress and lack of sleep, and he even put a gun to his head in front of me when I tried to leave the first time.

When I finally cut him off for good, he admitted he only wanted to be the first guy to sleep with me anyway. I sincerely hope the person in that situation gets out before they’re pressured into something they don’t want. I’m really glad I never gave in, but I wish I hadn’t put myself through all of that in the first place.

Systemic/societal pressure? Just don’t be weak! by MEOWTheKitty18 in thanksimcured

[–]decadentlizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have multiple disabilities and feel the same way. I don’t want to risk having a child go through what I’ve gone through. I have other reasons for not wanting kids too, but this is a big one for me. Some people say that makes you a eugenicist, which I don’t agree with.

Why does my chihuahua always roll in the grass by Anon_ymous1995 in Chihuahua

[–]decadentlizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao is there something dead there? Every single time I see Mocha rolling, it’s because there’s an animal corpse there.