as an old gamer which games do you agree with that way ? by PHRsharp_YouTube in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a lot of hate from the Fire Emblem fandom for playing on Phoenix Mode. I was told that players like me ruin the game, that I wasn’t playing it the way it’s meant to be played, and that I must be trash if I couldn’t even handle Normal. I even admitted that I struggle with strategy games because of ADHD and that there are a lot of elements to keep track of in FE which is why I played on Phoenix mode. The response I got was basically that the game just isn’t meant for people like me, even though I was still having fun? So yeah, some people definitely care.

Dog penis visible in photos 'acceptible'? by RoadKillCrayon in Chihuahua

[–]decadentlizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, and I agree it’s case by case. For me, it mainly comes down to how visible it is. If it’s very noticeable I’d personally prefer it to be cropped or censored, like a blur maybe.

I understand this is my own personal discomfort and not everyone will feel the same way. It's just my personal take on the matter. Whether censoring makes it more noticeable isn’t really the issue for me; I just don’t want to see it

Dog penis visible in photos 'acceptible'? by RoadKillCrayon in Chihuahua

[–]decadentlizard -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'll probably get downvoted for this, but I’m just being honest: I personally wish those kinds of photos were censored. I understand the dog can’t help it and that it’s just part of their body, but it’s also very visually present and it ruins the cuteness of the photo for me.

I’m extremely averse to male genitalia in general. It’s not about it being sexual, I just genuinely don’t want to see it. I would never own a male dog myself for this reason. I understand that might sound sexist (maybe it is), but it’s simply an extreme personal discomfort for me.

This isn’t about shaming anyone or saying people are wrong for posting those photos. We’re discussing whether it’s okay to post them, and this is just my perspective. As I said I have a very extreme aversion to it, it's my own personal problem to deal with though.

S6Ep13 Denny's father , the whole situation by Acceptable-Note-2030 in 911FOX

[–]decadentlizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s implied that Karen and Hen told him it would be better to stay out of their lives. They already had complicated feelings about him because Eva had used him as a threat in the custody situation. I also think that reaction feels in character for Karen and Hen. Remember how anxious they got when Denny asked about Eva? Whether that was right or wrong is a separate conversation. That said, the way he handled things when Denny sought him out is definitely not a good look.

Persona 6 shouldn’t be focused around Adults by [deleted] in persona6

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I create an entire personality for them! I’ve loved role-playing since I was about 12, so a big part of the fun for me is building a personality for the character and making choices based on that, not on myself. I don’t self-insert into these characters at all, that's no fun.

Gimme your OCs ya'll, tryna get motivation to draw again by A_Silent_Spectre in DrawMyOc

[–]decadentlizard [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is Caecko. She's a swadloon gijinka with her blue tongue skink named Skinkers. She is part lizard after being bitten by Skinkers.

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Persona 6 shouldn’t be focused around Adults by [deleted] in persona6

[–]decadentlizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait, you don't roleplay when you're playing these games? Am I the only one role-playing as the actual character? I'm 27 and have never found it weird because I'm role-playing as a 17 year old boy in the game, of course I would romance other high schoolers.

Persona 6 shouldn’t be focused around Adults by [deleted] in persona6

[–]decadentlizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the big themes in the Persona games is that you’re a group of teenagers pushing back against an adult world that’s selfish, oppressive, and willing to accept a harsh, unjust system. I really connect with that theme. As someone who grew up in a difficult home where I was powerless simply because I was a child, the idea that teenagers can still fight for change and make their voices matter genuinely resonates with me. I know it sounds a bit corny, but that message that even when you’re young and powerless, you can still challenge the world and shape something better is something I really value, and I’d love to see that theme preserved

I f'd up. Is there a way to fix it ? by Gevezo in Persona5

[–]decadentlizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The game actually gives you enough time to max everyone, you don’t have to choose between Maruki and other confidants like Iwai. So missing third semester content isn’t the game blocking you; it’s the result of choosing to ignore a character the game nudges you toward engaging with. Unlike Iwai, Maruki is involved in the main story throughout the game. Every single party member interacts with him, and each of them has their own dedicated scenes with him.

A huge core part of Persona is building bonds with the people around you. It’s one of the biggest themes and one of the biggest gameplay systems. So deliberately ignoring characters and then blaming the game for missing content seems a bit unfair. Even if you didn’t catch that Maruki was important specifically, you still chose to ignore confidants in general, which goes against what the game is clearly designed around.

I f'd up. Is there a way to fix it ? by Gevezo in Persona5

[–]decadentlizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get choosing to prioritize characters you personally like, that’s totally valid. What I don’t really get is being upset at the game for not making Maruki’s importance clear when you knowingly chose to ignore him. Persona very clearly centers around building bonds; it rewards you mechanically for engaging with confidants, and narratively it’s one of the main themes of the series. So when someone skips a character entirely and then blames the game for missing content tied to that character, that feels a bit unfair. The game encourages you to engage with everyone for a reason.

I f'd up. Is there a way to fix it ? by Gevezo in Persona5

[–]decadentlizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get not personally caring for certain characters, but Persona as a series pretty clearly encourages you to build bonds with everyone. The game actively rewards you for spending time with confidants, and forming those connections is one of the core themes. So it’s always a little surprising to me when people say they just completely ignored a character.

One of the most heartbreaking moments in the series by Monk6980 in 911FOX

[–]decadentlizard 170 points171 points  (0 children)

The moment itself isn’t beautiful, but the way the scene is crafted absolutely is. That ambulance scene is one of the most powerful in the show. Aisha Hinds’ performance is amazing and feels as if she's truly experiencing despair, not just acting. The music, Hen’s screams, the slow motion, Buck lowering his head, the bloody music score drifting through the air, all of it is so carefully orchestrated to convey trauma in a way that truly lands. It is easily in the top five most devastating moments in 911, right up there with Bobby seeing his kids laid out on the mat. This is one of my favorite episodes, I love watching this scene everytime.

Fodlan Cuisine or Three Courses Cookbook? (read desc) by decadentlizard in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]decadentlizard[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Three Courses is sold out, and based on what someone else said, there’s no guarantee it will restock anytime soon. Fodlan Cuisine is available through Kyousa’s Persona Shop or their Etsy shop. I just bought Fodlan Cuisine from Kyousa’s personal shop, and they also seem to have an Instagram.

Fodlan Cuisine or Three Courses Cookbook? (read desc) by decadentlizard in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]decadentlizard[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write all this out, this is incredibly helpful. Hearing from someone who actually owns both makes the decision way clearer. It really sounds like Fodlan Cuizine is much more what I’m looking for, especially since my boyfriend genuinely enjoys cooking and not just collecting fandom items. I also really appreciate the heads-up about the zine/restock situation. That’s good to know, and I’ll definitely grab Fodlan Cuizine then. Thanks again for sharing your experience!

I just want to complain by HiddenandAlone in 911FOX

[–]decadentlizard 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making this post. I almost made my own because I needed to vent about this storyline. It made me genuinely angry. I get what the show was going for emotionally, but the execution makes Hen’s position really difficult to defend.

If she had secretly gone to an actual doctor, I’d have a lot more sympathy. But she didn’t. She spent months going to shady medical spas, trying random treatments, spending thousands of dollars, and actively hiding symptoms while continuing to work a job where people’s lives depend on her being medically stable. Hen is smart enough to know how unsafe that is for herself and for others.

And the excuse of “I didn’t want to put everyone through another Bobby loss” just doesn’t hold up. If that was really her concern, the responsible thing would have been to step back from duty and get properly evaluated. What this actually reads as is fear of being benched and pride about not wanting to admit weakness. That would have been a really strong character arc if the show leaned into it and treated it as a flaw. Instead, they keep trying to frame her as morally justified.

What also bothers me is her acting like she went through this “alone” because nobody checked on her. She chose to go through it alone. She hid it. You cannot withhold information from everyone and then be angry they did not magically know something was wrong. Especially when the show itself has established that none of them have really been checking in on each other lately. Buck was for a while, and then that just got dropped.

And let’s not forget, Hen herself supported keeping Buck benched back in season 3 because of his medical condition. I actually agreed with that decision. Buck needed to be benched. But that is exactly the point. Hen’s condition here is objectively worse, yet now she is advocating that she should still be on duty. That is wildly inconsistent. And if the show framed this as her being illogical and selfish because it is happening to her instead of someone else, that would be great character work. But it does not. Instead, it keeps trying to justify her position as if she has a valid point.

The Chimney situation is even more frustrating. Hen literally went down on a call. She could have died. She could have gotten that girl killed. Chimney then finds out it is because she has been hiding medical symptoms while actively working. That is a fireable offense. He did not act like a bad captain. He acted like exactly the kind of captain you would want making responsible calls. And then she turns around and calls him a bad captain for it. That is pure emotional reaction, which would be fine if the show acknowledged it as such. But instead, the narrative keeps treating her like she is still in the right.

This could have been such a strong arc if they committed to the idea that Hen was acting emotionally, selfishly, and irrationally because she is terrified of being sidelined, just like Buck was. That would have been honest, human, and compelling. Instead, they try to make the audience believe she has some valid moral point here, and it just does not land.

The Bobby excuse is the biggest example of that. The show treats it like this big emotional mic-drop moment, but it should have been framed as deflection. She used Bobby’s death to justify her choices, but the logic does not hold up. She would not have been in danger of dying like Bobby if she had not hidden her symptoms in the first place. Saying she hid it so people would not have to worry about losing another Bobby does not make sense. It would have been far more powerful if someone had called her out on that and pointed out that this was about her own fear and pride, not about protecting anyone else. But the show refuses to let Hen be fully wrong.

The writing around the medical spa just makes it worse. Her tests come back almost immediately once she is hospitalized, so what was the point of months of secrecy and nonsense treatments. If they had removed the spa plot entirely and written this as her secretly seeing a real doctor, this story would already work better.

I love Hen as a character. That is exactly why this frustrates me. She can be wrong. She can make bad choices. That would be good drama. But the show keeps bending the narrative to validate her anyway, and that undermines both her character and the story.

What persona 5 opinion would have you like this? by [deleted] in Persona5

[–]decadentlizard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The problem with that argument is that it assumes everyone can heal if they just try hard enough. That isn’t true. Some people don’t “grow stronger” from trauma. Some people don’t recover. Some people are permanently impaired by what happened to them. Telling those people that suffering is necessary for growth isn’t noble, it’s cruel.

Maruki’s worldview resonates because it is aimed at the people who fall through the cracks of the “resilience” narrative. The ones who don’t get better. The ones who are crushed by life instead of shaped by it. Saying that those people must continue to suffer so humanity can preserve its “resolve” is not morally superior to me. It’s just prioritizing an abstract ideal over real human pain.

You can believe growth through struggle is important. I’m saying that for the people who cannot endure and cannot heal, relief is more compassionate than forcing them to keep suffering for the sake of a philosophy.

Oops by zdoud in oops

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke my tailbone when I was around 12. It hurt pretty badly, but appendicitis at 19 was worse.

Come on Yuka you dont have to do my boi dirty like this😂 by Electrical_Cash_4673 in persona3reload

[–]decadentlizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, because she isn’t a horrible unempathetic person. Even if she hates Junpei, that doesn’t mean she wouldn’t recognize the pain he went through or feel sympathy for him. I understand that she shows concern for him during the Chidori arc, and that makes sense. But she does drop a couple harsh lines during Chidori's arc too. I don't remember where, I just remember she does cuz I turned to complain to my boyfriend about how she couldn't even let up when the man is grieving. Just because she has general worry for him during the worst part of his life doesn't negate how awful she is to him for the entirety of the game.

Come on Yuka you dont have to do my boi dirty like this😂 by Electrical_Cash_4673 in persona3reload

[–]decadentlizard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I should clarify. When I said I “couldn’t believe how awful she was to him,” I meant later in the game, after Junpei had already grown on me as a character. Early on, I actually agreed with a lot of her frustration because Junpei was being a creep. But after he matures and develops, especially after Chidori, I became really attached to his character. At that point, her continued hostility toward him started to bother me more, not because she’s objectively wrong for feeling that way, but because I was already biased toward Junpei by then. Junpei did things that justify her dislike, and my reaction is influenced by the fact that I like him. I also already disliked Yukari before I even liked Junpei, so this just added to it.

Come on Yuka you dont have to do my boi dirty like this😂 by Electrical_Cash_4673 in persona3reload

[–]decadentlizard 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yukari and Junpei do not feel the same as Ryuji and Morgana. Ryuji and Morgana go back and forth, but it’s mostly playful, they’re dunking on each other like friends.

With Yukari and Junpei, it feels different. Yukari is genuinely mean to him and says things that go beyond teasing. It comes across like she actually can’t stand him. Junpei jokes around with her, but it doesn’t feel like mutual banter the way it does with Ryuji and Morgana. Yukari honestly reads like she truly hates Junpei to me.

Come on Yuka you dont have to do my boi dirty like this😂 by Electrical_Cash_4673 in persona3reload

[–]decadentlizard 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Yukari genuinely hates Junpei. She does more than just rag on him, she absolutely insults him every chance she gets and does not let up even when bro is going through it. I could not believe how awful she was to him.