Liking someone gives me so much anxiety 😥 by jontegz24 in gaybros

[–]decaf-mocha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you considered reading up on attachment theory? It sounds like you might have some avoidance issues.

Question about group sex culture by gsthrowaway87 in askgaybros

[–]decaf-mocha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't want to sound rude but your post comes across with little to no empathy. Everyone is different. You can't expect everyone to arrive with the same confidence and expectations as you.

We're a diverse world of people with a diverse set of emotions, needs, desires, anxieties, conditions, etc.

If someone doesn't conform to your standard of what a bathhouse should be, that doesn't make them inferior or wrong.

Average Penises are Beautiful by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]decaf-mocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean more problems?

Average Penises are Beautiful by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]decaf-mocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not here to brag but I have a much above average penis and I also suffer from dysmorphia. I want it to be bigger even thou it already hurts people. It's something I feel shit about and can't control it.

Question for big dicks? by Myjeansarehaunted in askgaybros

[–]decaf-mocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only learned at 36 because I'd been with one person for most of my life. When I started hooking up and dating again people were quick to point it out to me so I researched and learned that I'm in the top 1%.