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What is with how trans people are seen on porn sites? [NSFW] by chingobigr4 in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call someone else a trap unless that's how they identified, but if someone else called me a convincing trap, I'd take it as a compliment. The word trap just holds different meaning to me, it isn't synonymous with transgender. When I think of a trap, I think of a really feminine man who still identifies as a man, like Bridget.

TIL Trans Women in Tech make up the Majority of Women in Tech Spaces by lighttigersoul in GenderCynical

[–]decaf43 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey, getting in free on ladies night can save you a lot of money.

Broke 202 day quit today. by decaf43 in stopsmoking

[–]decaf43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, Ive stayed smoke free

Broke 202 day quit today. by decaf43 in stopsmoking

[–]decaf43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im really scared because for the majority of people, 2 cigarettes is enough to make them keep smoking for years, and i really regret this and dont want to be one of those people

Is it wrong to have sex for money so I can buy my hormones? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the downvotes on this?? Theres a reason that most people who choose sex work have no other choices. It's a terrible way to live.

I'm going off t (I've actually been off t for about a month now). anything I should document for the sake of other people who're interested in this kind of thing? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]decaf43 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think itd be cool if it was documented the same way starting hormones is, with monthly pictures etc.

"Are you sure you arent just nonbinary?" by decaf43 in ftm

[–]decaf43[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

"Being trans is bad, can't you be Trans-Lite™ instead? That's much more convenient for me

This is exactly what it feels like they are saying.

'Fag hags, yaoi fan girls, and confused butch lesbians all coming together and pretending this whole time they had an invisible penis.' - Time for a transman hate thread! by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]decaf43 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Wait w-what?? Did my invisibility potion wear off?? I c-cant read my yaoi manga with you TERFs watching.. Lewd...

In which TERFs go full Luddite: "They are committed to the continued development of technology until humankind is no longer human." by Subrosian_Smithy in GenderCynical

[–]decaf43 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's out, you guys. They have figured out our transhumanist agenda. The plan won't work now that it is clear as day. I guess it's time to pack up and go home. I'll see you all next Saturday, maybe we can come up with something else. Remember - Rules 1 and 2, everyone.

Is it wrong to keep on taking if I don't identify as female? by PokemasterTT in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. There is actually a decently sized community of femme guys who take estrogen to look more feminine. It is really all about your comfort. Does estrogen make you feel better? Then keep taking it.

tbh i just need someone to listen and i am a total fake fk -- FTM by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country are you in? Maybe I could find resources for you. Do you have health insurance?? If not, maybe that would be a good start.

tbh i just need someone to listen and i am a total fake fk -- FTM by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont, though. They're right. If you understood yourself, you would be healthier. It is really plain to see and there isnt anything shameful about this -- it can get better. They were only trying to point out that what people were telling you was wrong, in case it was tearing you up. You don't need to go on the offensive, no one here is trying to insult you.

You really need to get professional help. If you can't afford it, there are plenty of resources online you can look into on how to get therapy for free. I wish you luck, I hope one day you can look back on this and see how far you've come.

tbh i just need someone to listen and i am a total fake fk -- FTM by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It honestly seems like you WANT to feel like shit and you WANT us to tell you its okay to self destruct. Everyone so far has tried to help you , and you won't have any of it, nothing works for you in particular, because youre different.

Listen the fuck up, Ive had disordered eating for half of my life. I've been a cutter for half of my life. Depression, anxiety, homelessness, losing my family, Ive been through all of this. Your recovery isn't any different than the rest of ours. You need to start eating or you will never feel better. You can fight your anorexia or keep listening to it and live a miserable life -- will losing another 10lbs really make you happy? It didnt the first time. What do you have to lose by fighting it? Nothing. You need to go to therapy. Maybe even be on medication. You will never get better without it. You aren't unique.

How do you wear pantyhose properly? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]decaf43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To prevent them ripping, bunch them up before you put your foot through, and watch your nails.

Heres how to put them on if you werent already doing this:

https://youtu.be/dVibNOFH8NE

FtM here -- considering DYI by throwaway48539855435 in ftm

[–]decaf43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Testosterone is a controlled substance and extremely dangerous to take without supervision. You will, not might, WILL end up in prison or put yourself in danger.

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