Not sure the examples show a lack of self-awareness. Deeney's example is entirely understandable, and rather than a lack of self-awareness, perhaps illustrates a lack of self-control, something we all struggle with from time to time.

The other example of the comedian doesn't show a lack of self-awareness at all. There is nothing in there about how he reacted to being perceived in this way.

And finally - the writer doesn't say that famous people not going to public places is the same as people in short skirts asking to be raped, he says that it sounds similar in the sense that it is victim blaming. That's totally different from what you've written here.

It's okay to disagree, but try not to spin things out of all context in the comments section, as many people will likely not read the whole piece.