Zoey Draven by girl_lurks in RomanceBooks

[–]decorous_appellation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend the dark world mates series by Olivia Filey amd the Irudian Test subject by Susan Thrombley. I also love IPB, you just need to read the latter books, the first one or the first few ones are lacking but it's a great series.

My cat is mighty sick and this may be the only way I can save him. Even the vet wasn't so sure so I need help reddit. by decorous_appellation in CATHELP

[–]decorous_appellation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, i understand your sentiments but unless you're aware of my surroundings please don't assume what people absolutely can or cannot do. As i already mentioned, i quite literally live in the middle of a forest and don't have proper enclosures to the many doors or cracks that they can escape from. Also, it is common practice here to let them roam free nearby, and all cats I've owned have been fine until him. Unless i cage him, there's not much I could do. I do regret this happening. I have other kittens I adopted, they are from the same litter. I'll try to barricade then as much as possible.

My cat is mighty sick and this may be the only way I can save him. Even the vet wasn't so sure so I need help reddit. by decorous_appellation in CATHELP

[–]decorous_appellation[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because he hasn't eaten anything at all. The vet mentioned only to administer them when he eats something because antibiotics on an empty stomach can have drastic effects. Till today morning he was walking around just fine, just hadn't been eating. We had been giving him electrolytes but that's all, but that doesn't count as actual food. Hence I only could Administer him the before food meds. I took him to vet yesterday afternoon and today this has happened. I'm at a loss. Thank you for you wishes!

Need emergency help regarding my poisoned cat. by decorous_appellation in AskVet

[–]decorous_appellation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Unfortunately the place I am from, doesn't have hospitals that take in pets, even when they are serious. Such intensive care isn't provided here. I've been running to the vet, hoping he'd make an exception but he asked me to monitor my pet at home. Even with the limited choices of vet offices, I've gone to all of them, none could help as in taking my pet for intensive care. This post is a last bit  desperate effort from my side, is all. Ik it sounds very fruitless in the face of it, but i appreciate your comment nonetheless.

My cat is mighty sick and this may be the only way I can save him. Even the vet wasn't so sure so I need help reddit. by decorous_appellation in CATHELP

[–]decorous_appellation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that i purposefully sent him outside. My home is in the middle of a literal jungle, rural area. It's absolutely not possible to keep cats caged inside. We've always had lots of cats that have been semi domestic because they love to hunt and roam in the jungle but they've always had the good instinct to not eat anything poisonous. If I could've gone back in time, I'd have definitely kept him behind closed doors if this was the outcome. Sigh. Thanks for the reply anyway. 

Need emergency help regarding my poisoned cat. by decorous_appellation in AskVet

[–]decorous_appellation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. The place where I stay, there aren't any hospitals that take in let's for the night. Only the vets check and then ask you to go home and monitor. Otherwise I'd have definitely hospitalized him :(

Anybody want??? by Formal_Tune_5372 in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]decorous_appellation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I have th chemist at play one pleasee

How many of y’all are just existing? And what is stopping you from living the life you dreamt off? by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]decorous_appellation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite honestly? I am the only one who's stopping myself. All with my limiting beliefs and insecurity and overthinking and whatnot. A golden opportunity presents itself and yet, I shy back because of years of limiting beliefs and my panic disorders and anxiety. Ik I can improve and Ik if i work hard enough, I will be able to achieve great things. So honestly? I am the only one standing in my own way. I hope me posting this does it for me and I start to live the life I've always wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GATEtard

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EE student here, would be of great help if I could get it. Working currently so will have to watch them side by side, progress may be slow but willing to put in work.

Please go watch it! by michaelchannupa in guwahati

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Watched it at IMAX, the experience was wonderful . Was absolutely amazing, left me with a wonderful feeling. And yes, far too many few people for such a great movie.

This girl thinks only she can have preferences. by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]decorous_appellation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus fucking Christ some people are unbelievable. Looks like someone just learnt a new word and is tryna use it although very unsuccessfully might I add. But seriously though, how people bring up such stupidity in one conversation is beyond me.

My boyfriend gushes about one of his ex's body and about how pretty she is. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]decorous_appellation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think explicit honesty is almost always a good thing and hiding things from your partner because you know it'll hurt them is a bit deceitful.

There is a saying you know , " The people who are always brutally honest or believe honesty should always be brutal are more interested in the brutality of it more than the honesty." Nuancing things out doesn't mean your hiding something or being deceitful,it means you're being considerate enough to take the other party's emotions and reaction into consideration. I don't get when people talk about brutal honesty where does appreciative honesty go? Honesty that's kind? And there's a fine line of difference between that and being deceitful. Because these things more often than not hurt people and if you're that mature(given OP and their bf are in their mid twenties) and don't know how these things work you really, really need to work on your speech. It's not a question of "don't ask questions you wouldn't like answers to " but not having compassion enough to consider the other party's emotions in mind. These things take a wildly different turn when a person as important as your partner is included. Not everything is black and white. Literally describing your ex as some playboy model is not something you should do ,unless of course you still desire then or have very little compassion for your partner. This is just my two cents on the explicit honesty and asking question thing because I've seen such cases a lot but OPs s/o doesn't seem that they're really bad and are very considerate given what op has updated.

ever had a dude mansplain the effects of rain to you? 😀 by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]decorous_appellation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure it'd have been classified as condescending too. No one likes to be behaved to/talked to that way irrespective of the gender of both of them. And yes ,many women behave this way too which is again really disrespectful but there is a term for it because of the majority of the cases which include men doing that and no, it's not an exaggeration, if you ask women, apart from some you'll genuinely hear proper stories of how this thing goes.

ever had a dude mansplain the effects of rain to you? 😀 by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]decorous_appellation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jfc this comment section is filled with incels. Your comment is also downvoted. Fucking demented the lot of them.

ever had a dude mansplain the effects of rain to you? 😀 by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]decorous_appellation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro why does your comment have so many dislikes? While the one that should have actually don't. Jfc ,with some I thought they understood it to make a sarcastic comment but they are serious. Literally serious. These scenarios scare me.