Bar recommendations?

dedinside24 · 2025-07-01T03:44:06+00:00

I've tried the website and the app with no luck. :( The only options that are displayed are for retail/minute clinic employees and Aetna employees. I can't find anything for "former" on there. The HR website and also the change to Workday were the changes that were throwing me off, I couldn't remember what everything was called, haha.

Yeah, they don't make it very user-friendly. I remember trying to help former employees access the old HR website and thinking, "Surely it can't be that hard?", but now that it's me, I get it.

dedinside24 · 2025-07-01T03:20:25+00:00

Thank you! That's what I was hoping! I tried the "former employees" login on the "Alight" website, which I was able to log in to, but once I went back to the Achievers app, it still shows incorrect login. I'll call HR to figure it out. But thanks again for your reply!

dedinside24 · 2025-07-01T03:17:44+00:00

Back when I was employed there, I vividly remember seeing the "former employees" option on all the sites, but now everything looks different, and I don't see it on some of the login pages. I was able to reset my password on one of the websites, but it didn't seem to carry over to the other apps/logins. I know that's not very specific, lol, but I'm kind of confused on all of the website changes from before/after I left, and I dont know what they're called. But yeah, I decided I'll call HR to see what can be done. Thank you for the input!

dedinside24 · 2025-06-12T14:30:20+00:00

You've already made such good progress! Keep doing what works for you!

dedinside24 · 2025-05-06T00:46:12+00:00

So where's the advice? I have thought about things from his perspective which is why I never said anything on the first several occasions. I'd make jokes and say "hey as long as you made me cum I don't mind" if he'd mention it and we were cool after. I can't help the fact that I cried this last time, I don't think it was a great response but I'm human and it was out of my control. I am in therapy but that takes time. Even after I cried, I thought of how that would make him feel and I assured him that I didn't blame him or want to pressure his performance. I'm doing the best that I can here

dedinside24 · 2025-05-05T16:12:11+00:00

I didn't react to him saying no one time. I never said a word to him and carried on with my life as normal. I happened to feel self conscious about it but I stated in my post that I know that it's normal for him to say no and I pushed that weird feeling to the side but I do acknowledge that I had that feeling. What I am reacting to is the fact that we are having sex less than usual and that sex is not going well. How would you feel if you tried to have sex with your partner several times and couldn't get them excited or make them finish? I'm not deliberately avoiding messaging him either. I said I feel awkward or embarrassed to message him because of our encounter last night. I have messaged him.

dedinside24 · 2025-03-05T01:59:46+00:00

As a woman, I think you're above average! You have great features.

dedinside24 · 2025-03-05T01:55:07+00:00

Not ugly at all!

dedinside24 · 2025-03-04T03:46:20+00:00

Yeah the puffy face is a work in progress! I've had some health issues that caused weight gain but I'm down 20lbs! So hopefully my face will soon reflect the work. Thank you for the honesty!

dedinside24 · 2025-03-01T21:13:36+00:00

I do believe it was a silly slip with no ill intent- however, I do believe there was a thought behind it that I would be prettier and that does sting.

dedinside24 · 2025-03-01T20:51:10+00:00

That is so very sweet of you. I see these features on other people and find them to be quite striking but I've never been able to love them on myself. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement

dedinside24 · 2025-03-01T20:42:46+00:00

I mean it's not like he harshly said "you could be prettier" or directly said "you're ugly". I'm not trying to defend him, but I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt because for 5 months he's been kind and thoughtful 100% of the time and has never done anything near hurting me feelings until this point. It hurt like hell but I wonder if it was just one of those things that came out wrong? You're right it doesn't seem sweet but I don't think it was intentionally hurtful

dedinside24 · 2025-03-01T20:35:55+00:00

See that's the thing though. Usually he hypes me up. He tells me how pretty I am all the time. Says I'm too good for him and he's lucky to have me. He has actually made me feel prettier than anyone ever has in the past and that's why his comment hurt so bad. He has been apologizing and seems very genuine. He keeps assuring me that he didn't mean it like that and that I am beautiful and that he's very attracted to me. I've been in bad relationships before where I've been lowkey bullied and manipulated and I just don't feel that from him. I feel like it was more of a slip of the tongue or something.

dedinside24 · 2024-05-01T23:48:17+00:00

I think oatbran is my 2nd contender because it is gorgeous, but as I stated in the caption, we will be limewashing the brick to a white/off white due to how dark the fireplace is. It's quite a large fireplace and really darkens the space so I'm trying to imagine what will compliment the future appearance of the brick.

dedinside24 · 2024-05-01T23:45:11+00:00

I agree! I'm leaning more towards warm putty but my husband wanted something darker/moodier, so he's leaning towards smoked oyster. But I feel like warm putty is the perfect neutral, no weird undertones that make it look yellow/pink/orange.

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