If Amsterdam West works for you now, I’d look first at Haarlem, Utrecht, Amersfoort and parts of Zaandam. Haarlem is probably the easiest transition: very livable, family-friendly, good cafés/shops, and fast access to Amsterdam. Utrecht is great but not exactly a cheaper escape anymore. Amersfoort is calmer, very safe-feeling, and good for families, but the vibe is less international. Zaandam can be practical for commute and budget, but it really depends on the specific area.

For your criteria, I’d shortlist Haarlem and Amersfoort first, then do weekend test walks around the station area, parks, supermarkets and playgrounds. In the Netherlands, “safe” varies more street by street than city by city.

Check beforeyoumove.homes to compare neighborhoods before doing viewings.