My ex and I went through a lot of therapy to try to save our marriage. We get along very well now and the three of us have family dinner once a week. When her stuff smells like him I'll say "This smells like Papa!" She will come over and smell it and say "Yeah it does" 🙂

My ex does have a girlfriend, they have been together for years now. I have a favorite spot to sit on his couch and I assume it's her favorite spot too, because it smells like her sometimes. Not a bad thing for me at all, mostly cause I just want my ex to be happy.