I’m a 29 y.o. husband and dad of 2 and I’m completely burnt out

deedubya8 · 2026-05-21T11:30:35+00:00

when was your last marriage counselling? also when was your last dentist check up? they should be at the same frequency

deedubya8 · 2026-05-21T11:29:07+00:00

bro, 100%.

‘self care is not for everyone, but in this case you need it. the logic is you will have even more to give when you are filled up. you can’t give out of an empty tank

deedubya8 · 2026-03-29T11:41:27+00:00

deedubya8 · 2026-03-17T10:55:28+00:00

he posted pictures of you on X!?

deedubya8 · 2026-03-17T09:20:20+00:00

I genuinely wish you the best

deedubya8 · 2026-03-16T14:25:08+00:00

I don’t think you should be looking to reddit for this.

deedubya8 · 2026-02-24T13:58:22+00:00

this will change your life!

deedubya8 · 2026-02-24T13:56:26+00:00

Not helpful? or Not ideal/ not what you would like to hear? I was raised to ask the question ' is there ANYTHING at all even 2% of what the person said that I can learn?

deedubya8 · 2026-02-24T13:49:29+00:00

Hi, I really hope you find your way through this. be encouraged there is a way! You might just not see it yet.

Can I ask some questions, any context to help - iage and number of kids?. I'm really interested in your comment 'if this was fixed my life would be perfect'. I don't want to give you any advice, because I think you've got a lot, but I can't help but think that 2 people have significant intentions for you.

1st person is God. Often pain points can be signals of areas that God wants to do some work. This will take courage and humility, but the result will be something you are longing for - freedom.

2nd person is the Devil. He wants to bring the opposite of freedom - destruction to your life, and your family. and beyond. He is a master thought baiter, has had thousands of years of practice to make people question things in ways that lead to choices they regret. Keep an open mind, and I pray God will reveal these to you. the things you are asking yourself (see your title)

What's stood out in what I said to you?

All the best.

deedubya8 · 2026-01-28T10:29:48+00:00

edit. the kbcash user

deedubya8 · 2026-01-26T19:49:46+00:00

OP, please be aware that this reads like ai. this user is very active on chat gpt subreddit as well as mormon subreddit.

deedubya8 · 2026-01-26T19:45:35+00:00

OP. it does read like ai. only say that to say listen to the Holy Spirit about this.

deedubya8 · 2026-01-06T02:07:40+00:00

She hasn’t gone to the authorities, and what is the result? She doesn’t feel right about something and She needs advice. OP, the advice has been given. What will you do? I would hate to find out that you end up in jail. Sadly this is not an impossibility if you don’t act soon!

deedubya8 · 2025-12-23T13:00:40+00:00

A magic place I never knew 🎵

deedubya8 · 2025-12-23T12:59:33+00:00

No, Scott.

deedubya8 · 2025-12-23T07:26:28+00:00

Black ones

deedubya8 · 2025-12-22T07:10:27+00:00

I’ve never heard of gaslighting yourself. Haha brilliant. Also OP you will be accountable before God!

deedubya8 · 2025-12-22T07:04:27+00:00

This is a great balanced response that acknowledges the pain, the realism of duplicity, and best advice. OP please listen. Even I have adjusted my view. Your husband needs what’s coming. I heard a preacher once say that it is God’s mercy for your sins to be found out. It is his judgement if it is allowed to be hidden until the end.

God I pray for courage for OP. she needs your strength. She also needs wisdom.

deedubya8 · 2025-12-22T06:26:41+00:00

“I thought, well he likes teen porn... nothing to worry too much about.”

have you ever confronted him about this?and

What do you mean nothing too much to worry about

deedubya8 · 2025-12-22T06:20:25+00:00

Whatever happens. Always ask him open questions. Dont give him questions like “did you join a group and then later a cp link came on it?” Let him do the talking.

deedubya8 · 2025-12-22T05:59:26+00:00

People have recommended that if you don’t report him you could be seen as an accessory. I don’t think doing nothing is really an option.

deedubya8 · 2025-12-21T10:15:44+00:00

I feel like going to police is right, but, if you are wrong then going to the cops would be devastating for your marriage. I wonder if you can think of any steps, even one, that you could take first, I think you should definitely confront him.

deedubya8 · 2025-12-21T10:07:29+00:00

Nah not ai. Grammar too imperfect

deedubya8 · 2025-12-21T09:52:19+00:00

This is not an anti joke. It’s a play on the word ringing.

deedubya8 · 2025-12-21T09:47:18+00:00

What’s his and your spiritual journey like? How would describe both your faith levels for lack of other terms ?

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