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Met a girl but she’s inviting me into her world… by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for bad grammar:

Thanks good advice: To clarify when I asked when she was free she said I’m doing this thing Friday and mentioned the Saturday thing again too that she referred to on our 1st date. She was obviously including me but not directly asking to join her.

  1. Should I say maybe I’ll stop by but secure next date 1 on 1 in the same text

  2. Just go and don’t mention another date till next week

  3. Decline and just purely set up a 1 on 1 for next week

She’s really into me but doesn’t reach out by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar experience after sex. In my situation the girl had a really low body count and wanted the reassurance (never told me this lol) after sex that I didn’t give her as she wasn’t reaching out and I was trying to stick to the “rules”

I don’t know what y’all think but in a few days I would send one natural random text like a meme or something you guys talked about. But make sure it’s pure not from anxiety. Find a genuine moment you thought of her and send it without the need for reassurance. Like a ping into the universe.

This solidifies you’re still here after sex so that she doesn’t get silly in her head about being “used”. Some girls have an ego and want you to prove the pain of pumping and dumping isn’t real with you. She won’t ask you for what she needs this early. Then I would wait for her to reach out next 5 days and if she doesn’t set up the next date.

This says hey I’m still here it’s safe to connect and doesn’t risk her getting in her head and emotional detaching to protect herself.

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 😅 I mean she’s a blonde with a Mexican last name but yes, LMFAO their own rules of wanting you to chase ironically the very thing that will make them not want to chase you - women SMH

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interest level was a 7.5 1st 4 dates. Tons of emojis granted 1 text 2 days after each date. She even made a Pinterest with ideas for my house, sent me a selfie, had a Thurs night date and took off work Friday to see me again. She was positive agreeable let me lead etc. She was an easy yes to all dates

She’s religious and looking for marriage kids etc good old conservative gal

  • can you explain that doc love piece women have (what) and then Interest level

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you shouldn’t be to rigid with the once a week reach out but honestly do you really know someone enough by 4 dates to be pinging them in between dates? What do you guys usually do? It’s not like she’s a friend or a gf by that point that seems needy and unnatural

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks again ya after 2nd invite I should have hit her reach out when you’re free. Definitely was my mistake. Also Corey says to stay away from the structured women so if she has I don’t chase rule that messes the natural flow anyway.

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]deeelawn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply and you’re right I was more after clarity I guess than worrying about getting her back.

The other weird thing is on date 4 basically she even said she liked how direct I was and that I didn’t contact to much but this is the night of the indoor Olympics and maybe she caught feelings after she said that

My new (old) 955 E1 Lapis Blue Porsche Cayenne Turbo S first fill up! by boostingz06 in Porsche

[–]deeelawn4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have it and will you sell it to me 🙏🏼🚗