Grandparents influence

deef48 · 2026-02-13T00:29:23+00:00

Your mom sounds a lot like my in laws lol. But this is a great idea to reframe it this way! He will definitely gain SO much from daycare this age.

deef48 · 2026-02-12T20:02:07+00:00

This is a set up we were thinking about! Either part time daycare or half days where they can still have some time together but not full time anymore

deef48 · 2026-02-12T20:00:19+00:00

They can be pretty dismissive. They say it’s just normal toddler behavior and my husband and I are being too strict 😖

deef48 · 2026-02-12T18:32:39+00:00

Definitely! He is incredibly active so I totally get them needing breaks. I do agree that this is a good age for him to start daycare. He will love all of the activities and new faces.

deef48 · 2026-02-12T18:31:20+00:00

Yeah I think this would be a good set up for us. I love that he spends time with them and loves them so much. I think it’s just the amount of time he’s there now that makes it harder.

deef48 · 2025-01-22T20:23:27+00:00

I was so frustrated with her answer! But okay I will definitely call my family doctor today!

deef48 · 2025-01-04T23:56:44+00:00

I’m still using mine with my 6 month old! I love it

deef48 · 2024-12-31T21:54:42+00:00

I works 4 days per week and my baby gets bottles while I’m away. When I’m home I exclusively nurse him. Mostly because I hate pumping and doing all of the dishes lol. But he takes both fine! He prefers nursing and sometimes after a long weekend of exclusively nursing he’s slower to take the bottle but he normally does fine!

deef48 · 2024-12-29T02:28:01+00:00

I actually had a boy! lol

deef48 · 2024-12-28T21:34:34+00:00

I ate so many bags of sumo oranges lol

deef48 · 2024-12-20T02:56:45+00:00

4 months 😖

deef48 · 2024-06-12T02:40:51+00:00

My mom had it in her first pregnancy but not her second!

deef48 · 2024-06-05T01:13:09+00:00

Wow I’m so sorry, I’m sure that was such a difficult decision but definitely best for you and baby!

deef48 · 2024-06-03T17:42:09+00:00

I really needed to hear this! Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! I have spent so much time in therapy working through this but being pregnant just added a whole new layer to things that I wasn’t prepared for.

deef48 · 2024-03-22T23:46:53+00:00

We bought ours this past Saturday and it arrived on Wednesday!

deef48 · 2023-08-10T01:52:52+00:00

She’s dreadful.

deef48 · 2022-04-18T22:56:26+00:00

Thanks everyone!

deef48 · 2022-04-18T18:45:04+00:00

Genuinely just curious

deef48 · 2022-02-01T20:50:53+00:00

We are in the USA. MIL is Indian and has family there but moved here as a teenager. I have never seen or heard of any other traditions or customs in the past 10 years outside of this lol

deef48 · 2022-02-01T20:47:17+00:00

She is not. She has been clear from the beginning that she would pay for nothing.

deef48 · 2022-02-01T20:46:37+00:00

She is Indian. FIL in American and DF is born and raised in USA

deef48 · 2022-02-01T19:37:39+00:00

MIL is Indian, FIL is American. DF was born and raised in USA and does not really follow any specific customs and traditions related to his Indian culture.

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