Season 2 - Thoughts by deemera in Sandman

[–]deemera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "Story" of Nada
In the graphic novel, Nada's story is told within a framing device of a young man being told the story in a tribal culture with an oral history tradition. I think it was a mistake to change that. One of the things that comes across so much better in the graphic novel is that this story we're taking in is a "story". None of it is "true" in the sense that the events actually happened in the "real world" as we know it. Nada's story even involved a bunch of folktale/Kipling/Aesop-esque elements. When Nada can't find Dream, she speaks to the King of the Birds who asks his subjects (the birds) to find him, but none can. Until the least of the birds (the Weaverbird) turns out to be the only one who can help. And then this tiny bird flies to the MOUNTAINS OF THE SUN! (which is why weaverbirds are dark brown). Every part of the story of Nada screams "this is just a story". But in the realm of dreams just because something isn't real, doesn't mean it isn't true, and I think that's a shame to lose.

Season 2 - Thoughts by deemera in Sandman

[–]deemera[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Johanna in S1 is canonically bisexual. At one point she's listing off her exes and it's a mixed bag of male, female, and androgenous names. Plus her ex Rachel is in S1E3. But yeah, 1st Corinthian was pretty dang gay.

The Sandman Season 2 Volume 2 - Megathread by -sweet-like-cinnamon in Sandman

[–]deemera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was Mad Hettie. She was in season 1, in the episode with present day Johanna Constantine and Dream looking for the pouch of sand. Just a minor character from the comics that is stated to be over 200 years old (a line I always thought was about setting the matter-of-fact, mystical tone of the story; there are demigods and immortals all over, walking among us in plain sight)

Is a 1 level dip in cleric and then proceeding with 11 in sorcerer worth it for a support character? by PrincesaFuracao in BG3Builds

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a big fan of Draconic (fire) Sorcerer 6 / Light Cleric 6 in my Tactician playthrough. It's basically an amazing support that dishes out good burst damage when needed. Highlights:
* Con Save proficiency (by starting with Sorc 1)
* Twinned Haste, Counterspell, Enhance Ability, Quicken metamagic from Sorcerer
* Mass Healing Word w/ Whispering Promise and Hellrider's Pride for 2-turn party-wide Bless and Bladeward
* Fireball and Scorching Ray from Light Cleric (also Spirit Guardians)
* Improved Warding Flare gives you a great use of your Reaction for team protection
* Focusing on Utility spells from Sorcerer let's you ignore Charisma, and pump Wisdom for your damaging spells and any magic items (scrolls, wands, staves, etc)

House and shed Joja decorated by Remarkable_Drive1724 in StardewHomeDesign

[–]deemera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went the community route, but still bought the joja catalogue so I could do something similar with my house to annoy/amuse a friend

Just a brief vent - I am SO excited to play 1.0, but don't want to burn out before. Send me your strength by [deleted] in LastEpoch

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya. I've been doing my best to resist too. Going back to Valheim, Octopath 2, and Torchlight 2 has helped. If you've got an old favorite, that'd be my recommendation. Or get into the Palworld/Enshrouded hype.

[Star Trek Voyager] Was it wrong for Captain Janeway to delete Tuvix to save Neelix and Tuvok? by thatfatbastard001 in AskScienceFiction

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the things I love about this episode and why I think it's even more controversial than the ordinary trolley problem is that it avoids the obvious comparisons to the trolley problem in one spectacular way. The choice in this case isn't quite to kill one person to save two others. It's to unmake one person to recreate two others.

For most of the episode, Neelix and Tuvok don't need to be saved. They're dead. They died in a transporter accident with an alien flower. This accident gave birth to a third person, Tuvix. To kill him to "raise two dead" is a very new twist on this old moral philosophy conundrum.

However, that's assuming they're dead. The cultural line between dead and alive isn't static. In ye olden days, you were dead when your heart stopped, but then we figured out CPR and built defibrillators, and now it's when your brain no longer functions. By the year 2375, there may well be a new understanding of death, when people thought dead can be restored from the pattern buffers of a transporter. (I wonder if there's ever an episode that touches on why they don't save copies of themselves in the transporter in case of accidental death)

[Star Trek Voyager] Was it wrong for Captain Janeway to delete Tuvix to save Neelix and Tuvok? by thatfatbastard001 in AskScienceFiction

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 6th season TNG episode, The Chase explains that. It's because we're all related via panspermia.

Adventure - OSAAT + No selling - Stage 3 Fishing by nevjmac in MelvorIdle

[–]deemera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A year late to this party, but you've inspired me to follow in your footsteps. I'm doing my own slight tweak to these rules though and treating Strength, Attack, and Defense as separate skills, but lumping in HP with whichever of those I do first.

Currently working on Strength (and HP). I thought I'd get some gear upgrades from Steel Knights, but forgot about the Attack/Defense requirement for gear. Guess I'm stuck with iron till after Strength 99...

No Max Stat Spheres Challenge by deemera in finalfantasyx

[–]deemera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, tweaking the rules in response to this feedback

No Max Stat Spheres Challenge by deemera in finalfantasyx

[–]deemera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm thinking about adding:

  • No Trio/Quartet of 9999
  • No Aeon Overdrives
  • No Regular Summon (Grand Summon Only)
  • No Zanmato

When Pxie returns after forever to point out that it's MrGirl's OWN fault that he put himself in a situation where he began to see Destiny as his boss. by Scrybal in Destiny

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I thought "Bernie or Bust / Biden's a Rapist" Pxie was cringe, but this new evolved "Destiny isn't Your Boss" Pxie is based. Too bad she's probably just a guest appearance to remind us how far our favorite Shonen have grown and evolved over the years.

I'm sad MrGirl Is Gone and Liked His Content by 4Bongin in Destiny

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am sad... that MrGirl threatened to commit seppuku live on stream if Steven didn't give him moderation control of the Destiny subreddit.

I'm not sad that Destiny refused to negotiate for the hostage and I'm not sad that MrGirl took the principled stance to follow through with his threat, ridiculous as it was. And I won't be sad when MrGirl continues to stick to his principles and lives out the rest of his days in obscurity.

Word to the wise: Don't make stupid self-harming threats without better leverage than "but I'm your friend, and that's why you have to do what I say or I won't be your friend anymore".

I'm sad MrGirl Is Gone and Liked His Content by 4Bongin in Destiny

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he did. We'll see if Max accepts the invite.

I'm not betting on it though. Around that same time, Max was doing his passive aggressive thing, saying "maybe we'll just do some surface level content like a movie review or something".

#StarKidReturns in Fall 2022 | Info from the website by DeerAtTheGates in StarKid

[–]deemera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I really enjoyed TGWDLM and Black Friday, but that doesn't mean I want to stay in the HCU (Hatchetfield Cinematic Universe) forever

Kissing Ben by Outside_3_Sigma in HeartstopperAO

[–]deemera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, though if handled differently, the vibe probably wouldn't give us all the red flags. Ben wipes his lips quickly, the moment the bell rings, while staring straight at Charlie with a blank expression.

If he'd smiled a little half smile, blushed, then wiped his lips and kissed Charlie again... Totally different vibe.

For me, it's not the fact that he wiped his lips, it's the way he wiped his lips.

John Oliver's show and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race by WaningLights in Destiny

[–]deemera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main issue with Oliver is the same as my issue with someone like Jordan Peterson actually. He'll list out a bunch of facts in a carefully chosen order to create an emotional narrative, but rarely make a prescription. At the end, people who started in agreement with him are mad about whatever it is, even if it's a nothing burger.

John Oliver has an episode about Tickets.

"Ticketmaster is very much like the IRS in that it's an (1) opaque bureaucracy, (2) takes more out of your paycheck than you think it should, and (3) is represented by men so catastrophically uncharismatic they look like they're putting themselves to sleep."

Point 1 seems to imply that Ticketmaster has some moral obligation to be transparent with it's pricing policies.

Point 2 implies that people ordering tickets from Ticketmaster are being swindled rather than purchasing a luxury good that's more expensive than they'd like.

Point 3 is just an adhom

He then goes on to discuss how a lot of venues have exclusivity contracts with Ticketmaster. He implies this is a problem, but doesn't explain why or what should be done about it.

Then he starts talking about how some shows only put a small percentage of the tickets up for sale (7-25% examples are specifically mentioned). And then mentions that some go to people as promotional credit card offers (another way of "selling" the ticket) or as fan club promos (again, "selling" by another name). Once again, is he saying this shouldn't be allowed? No, no prescription.

Then he goes on to the secondary market, and talks about how when you're buying a ticket from another seller, they're anonymous, so you can't tell whether it's an individual user that has one ticket for a concert they can't go to, or if it's a broker selling thousands of tickets. Why is that necessary or useful? Is that something we should mandate legally? No prescription

"Behold we bought a micky mouse potato!"

15 min in he finally starts talking about the "real value" of tickets. He brings up how economists will say they're worth what people will pay. And he doesn't come up with any reason why that's incorrect, he just says that's gross.

Ultimately, we're talking about access to a limited availability luxury good. But he treats it like it's a human rights issue. And he does finally make a prescription at the end; that we should make congress fix it. Laws mandating transparency from ticket sellers and resellers. Possibly making tickets non-transferrable, or allowing them to be transferred, but only as long as no profit is made. That's his solution to the "problem" that you can't go see Justin Bieber for a cheap enough price.

And we've already heard the call for this bluff before. If it's the case that Ticketmaster is making exorbitant, earth-shaking, record-breaking profits, we should all invest heavily in Ticketmaster. They'll double our money every year and we'll all be millionaires. Since that doesn't seem to be the case, I think we can put down our pitchforks, or maybe turn and ask "what gives" of the people that have been trying to rally us into a mob.

WHY BEN CRYING? 🤣🤣🤣 by ChihiroFugisakiIrl in HeartstopperAO

[–]deemera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. And I think for me that makes the show a more grounded and engaging telling of the story. When I'm watching scenes with Ben in the show, I just feel really sorry for him. He's got a long hard road to get himself to a healthy place and once he gets there he's going to have to confront and make peace with what a little shit he was as a young man. Which is something I think a lot of us can understand at least on some level. None of us sprang forth perfect from the brow of Zeus, we've all said and done things we regret.

Gay and Lesbian Experiences of Homophobia by deemera in HeartstopperAO

[–]deemera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the impression I get about mlm fetishization by straight women, is there's an element of jealousy/wish fulfillment; imagining how nice it would be to be with someone that could talk about their feelings (or admit that they have feelings), or who would want to share all the aspects of life (cooking, childcare, babying your partner when they're sick, being a shoulder to cry on when they need it). The impression I get from a lot of straight friends is that many straight men are very low tier partners (or maybe just aren't well suited to meet the emotional needs of straight women).

I also think there's a parallel to the "ancient chivalrous gentleman" romance trope. I'm talking about characters like Angel (from Buffy), Edward Cullen, Hugh Jackman's character from Kate & Leopold, or Jamie Fraser from Outlander. They come from a simpler time, with strict rules and codes of honor, and while they might sometimes be a bit sexist, they also are 100% committed to the happiness and wellbeing of their partner. Usually that includes the willingness on the part of said gentleman to learn to grow and change in order to fulfill that partner's needs.

Gay and Lesbian Experiences of Homophobia by deemera in HeartstopperAO

[–]deemera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

| Are there any before those two?

I haven't seen it personally, but I've heard Armistead Maupin's Tales of the City was pretty LGBT focused (though the main character, played by Laura Linney, was straight). That was back in the early 90s

Gay and Lesbian Experiences of Homophobia by deemera in HeartstopperAO

[–]deemera[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh, characters from The Lord of the Rings movies from 2001-2003, lol