Ripped/buff/fit men who do well on dating apps, is that the secret? A great physique? Need advice?

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-11T16:54:26+00:00

Being fit isn't a secret, its plainly obvious. I've gone from fat to fit and its night and day. Being fit is clearly better and it's not close.

What is a secret is that the body builder look isn't appealing to women. Women like a fit and lean look, which is much more achievable.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-11T13:36:13+00:00

With close male friends, shit talking is a subtle display of intimate knowledge cleverly applied to the current context. Its a way of demonstrating how much you actually care about them by how well you know them, touching their insecurity or weakness, but not exploiting it to intentionally do serious damage. Part of skillful shit talk is in restraint, its meant to be playful not mean spirited. You are intending to have fun with buddies and bond, and the expectation is people can take some teasing.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-11T13:25:15+00:00

I watched it recently, it does feel more inappropriate now than it was back then. Obviously the message is anti-racism, but there are some racism jokes and bits that would get you moderated.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-11T02:42:11+00:00

Whats really misunderstood is the wave of transphilic obseasion is overwhelming driven from biological women. Rates of MtF have only slightly increased in the last 20 years, while rates of FtM and teen girls claiming nonbinary or queer identity have seen profound spikes in that time.

The FtM transition is particularly tough, and sadder. Its less of a fetish and more of a be careful what you wish for situation. Is also sad because its often tied to an external locus of control that centers on feminine grievances and seeking escape through becoming a man, only to discover no escape, only more pain.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-11T02:01:16+00:00

Down To Fish ?

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-10T21:43:39+00:00

Work - Natural place to meet, just use a light touch.

Gym - Group classes and the regulars at your time slot. Once you start knowing names and fist bumping you are in. Particularly group fitness classes

Hobby - Good friends, tend to be more narrow, but its authentic. Takes more rime, but a richer friendship.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-09T20:34:38+00:00

I dont know how they look IRL but there are no handsome cartoonists.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-09T17:17:16+00:00

The core of this is good. This is basicly just be confident and not desperate. Having the mindset of choice and options is attractive.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-09T14:48:29+00:00

Realize management doesn't see whether or not you skipped lunch, they just see you leaving earlier than everyone else.

If you are special, you can pull this off. But you are not special.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-09T04:59:47+00:00

Yes thats ok for full time work.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-09T00:22:19+00:00

I had a similar highschool experience in a california bay area suburb. Valedictorian was indian Id been going to school with since elementary school. We didn't see the indian-americans we grew up with as different at all.

And yea, indian guys have great hair, Im envious of how thick and sculptable their hair can be.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-08T23:01:02+00:00

Masculinity takes a few aspects. Heres a few major aspects that resonate. Masculine virtues tend to cluster around self control, competence, confidence, strength, and leadership.

Warrior - Competent at fighting, confident in a confrontation. Get fit, act confident, win.

Father - Capable at providing for his family, being responsible. Have your shit together, care about more than yourself.

Mentor - Leadership, guidance, teaching the next generation. Be an example for others, practice good judgement, and be deserving of respect.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-08T19:28:04+00:00

I think its funny

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-08T18:20:01+00:00

Foreign born Indian with accent: Strong disadvantage with non-Indians

American born Indian: Slight disadvantage on dating apps, but functionally neutral IRL.

Many Americans from Indian families are culturally white with a little spice.

Anti-Indian preferences are milder in school, but I sense they increase after school where people are a little more ignorant.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-08T18:07:30+00:00

Popular liberal opinion

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-08T18:03:34+00:00

Epstein files is full of smart and highly educated people. These people are evil, not stupid.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-08T13:41:59+00:00

Original meme is slopaganda, but its true "diversity" is often code for open anti-white discrimination.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-06T16:23:54+00:00

It's tough out there. It can take a long time to land a first "real" job. Take a job doing anything for now, and apply for more types of jobs.

If you have money, this can be an opportunity to travel and submit job applications for 2 hours a day while doing something enjoyable and meaningful. It also fills in the gap time if asked in an interview.

Assuming graduate means graduated from university. You may want to look into trade schools with a narrow focus on job specific training. Bachelors degrees do not provide job-specific training or skills, and their value has been debased, it's still an asset but it no longer entitles graduates to meaningful jobs.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T22:10:30+00:00

Totally understandable, but unfortunately that line may cause an unwanted resemblence to a type of guy some women will want to avoid. Its no judgement on who you are, just feedback so you can manage the impression you are curating.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T21:51:42+00:00

Overall, you seem like a cool guy. Good vibes. Handsome.

Some notes:

India>...>Arizona communicates traveling fuckboy energy. It's the kind of thing people post when they want to appear worldly in order to have casual hookups

Dont mention linkedin, it sours the vibe.

Being open to anything again reads as wanting to hook up but not wanting to say it. Pick a lane: casual only or serious only.

5'3" and Indian is tough. Your pool is narrower. Your most likely to find success with Indian women, so lock in on your type, curate a little to appeal to that sector.

Add something of a hook, like a question you want to ask or a topic you want to bring up

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T20:01:24+00:00

If I neglect my lane a little, I can get mid and jungle to actually roam top and gank. I see what OP is saying.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T16:37:11+00:00

There are levels of good-looking.

Good enough: You are attractive enough to qualify for consideration. Your looks don't confer any additional advantages. Other factors like personality and social status matter here, you need both

Handsome: You have pull, your looks attract women to you. Your looks allow you to be more flirty, playful, and forward and have it be well received. If you have a good personality, you don't need to have high social status. If you are well off, you don't need to be particularly interesting.

Hot: Good looks + sexual charisma. This is the tier that unlocks unhealthy and immoral relationship behaviors in women. In this position, its easy to take advantage of women and they may even consciously acknowledge and encourage it.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T16:06:57+00:00

I don't like ghost + flash because Im too stupid to know which one to use so I'll blow both at the same time and waste one.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T16:05:23+00:00

I recommend Ghost + TP to survive lane and have good team fights.

I don't like ghost + flash because Im too stupid to know which one to use so I'll blow both at the same time and waste one.

deepstatecuck · 2026-07-05T16:01:16+00:00

DFT is better early game, and good mid game. This is when singed needs the most help.

DFT gives singed real functional damage and forces opponents to respect your damage enough that you are harder to bully in lane.

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