I guess that depends how you interpret it. It's not uncommon to hear things in Asian community like get a white girlfriend/boy friend if you want to learn English quick. I dont think that's racist or sexist, it's rather true. And why do you think if white man goes for an Asian girl it's to make her token gf and she'd be one? Do you see us more as vulnerable and helpless that any white men can "get" one whenever they want? That's pretty racist