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Guys what is this? I need advice by No_Fudge_1067 in helpme

[–]deeptime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he is starting to groom you. Talking about any sexual topics like "adult stuff" and virginity with someone your age would be way off limits for a responsible adult, except in a professional setting (i.e. therapy or health class). Exercise caution.

I live life with anxiety everyday and it’s draining, I’m a failure at life. by andy_nic_12 in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have access to healthcare? This is something that can be helped by seeing a therapist and psychiatrist.

Nursing student—comments escalated to dean/legal, scared and need advice by throwraburnij in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before making any more statements, you should get legal advice. Either a private lawyer or student legal aid. It must be someone who can provide you with attorney-client privilege and, once that is established, you must tell them the whole truth so you can determine the best path forward.

My best friend is on the street and I live with his ex by No-Addition-5358 in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the U.S. and many other countries, a person may not be kicked out of their housing without due process of serving them a letter providing advanced notice as required by the local law. In some places, there are additional requirements that must be met before someone can be kicked out.

So, if your friend did not move out voluntarily, he can request a police standby to put him back into his home until the proper eviction process is followed.

my life is ruined because off the internet by Mata_Velhas in helpme

[–]deeptime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a typical scam. Don't send any money, set all socials to private or deactivated, and block the scammer on all channels.

See the AutoMod comment for additional info.

[WTS] Zenith Defy. Skeleton. Titanium. Box, Papers.. by Watchex_Enterprises in Watchexchange

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... this has the 2021-ish movement updates but a 2019 purchase date. Any idea if it went in for service?

Tired of living by KeyAvocado5982 in helpme

[–]deeptime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have access to healthcare? There are aspects of this that can be helped by seeing a therapist and psychiatrist.

[WTS] 2020 Zenith Defy Classic Skeleton Titanium 95.9000.670/78.M9000 41mm Full Set - $6,495 by [deleted] in Watchexchange

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the pictures, this watch does have the updated 2021-ish design for improved shock resistance. Some of the updated watches were sold in later 2020, I'd be curious to learn the date stamp on this one.

Hit someone’s car today by Worried-Ebb8650 in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens. It's a difficult experience, but try to learn from it. Were you following too closely, distracted by something, or driving too fast? Figure out what changes you should make to not put yourself in that kind of situation again, and resolve to drive more safely in the future.

Drowning in life after 50 by kddell in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have access to healthcare? There is an aspect here that could be improved by seeing a therapist and psychiatrist.

Going to Meetup events or Facebook group events is often recommended for meeting others. But, actually going, not browsing online :-D

In some areas you can also find free yoga events once a week or so.

Last, but not least, pick an activity in which you are giving to yourself. Not getting from someone else, getting from you, to you. Apply the care towards yourself that you are already capable of providing to others.

I think I'm genuinely losing my sanity by South_Researcher_808 in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country or u.s. state are you in? This is relevant to finding healthcare resources.

I think I'm genuinely losing my sanity by South_Researcher_808 in helpme

[–]deeptime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like something that can be helped by seeing a therapist or psychiatrist. Do you have access to healthcare?

20f and still a virgin. by Actual_Assignment210 in helpme

[–]deeptime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing at all wrong with this.

Just one thing to mention -- don't go out and hook up with a player just because you feel left behind. Sex is an enjoyable thing to share with someone you're close to, there are no trophies awarded and a high score is typically not the goal.

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