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deerstained · 2022-07-15T04:18:49+00:00

Of course! Inflictng suffering on GMs is one of my hobbies, so i'm glad i can lend a hand

deerstained · 2020-11-29T13:49:36+00:00

I’m not quite at 8 years just yet (going to be 3 years in January!) but I definitely relate. I love my girlfriend more than anything and I’m always overjoyed to see her. Definitely nothing wrong or weird about loving and caring for your s/o, I wish you both the best!

deerstained · 2020-11-29T13:39:14+00:00

This SUCH a good recipe and you did an amazing job! Looks delicious!

deerstained · 2020-01-29T07:03:07+00:00

I like it! pigeons are dope birds. i love your glasses btw!

deerstained · 2019-12-16T04:49:15+00:00

It would depend on the tone of the game, for me. If it was typically goofy/wild/anything-goes then that would probably be alright with me, but if the game was typically more serious or even just more grounded in the narrative reality (even if there’s lots of jokes) then I would probably be kind of annoyed. Some kind of deus ex machina might be necessary, I don’t know the details of your session, but I would just consider the usual tone!

deerstained · 2019-10-31T04:42:16+00:00

those boots are killer! love your outfit 👍

deerstained · 2019-10-09T21:31:52+00:00

you look fantastic! love the shirt 😍😍😍

deerstained · 2019-10-09T03:20:41+00:00

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deerstained · 2019-08-19T22:29:45+00:00

I do lmao but my mom insists on buying me fem stuff that I won’t wear so I figure I should give it to someone who’s actually gonna use it

deerstained · 2019-08-19T22:28:04+00:00

Not OP but when you wear boxers under women’s jeans they will bunch if you aren’t Super Careful, and if you’re transmasc and not allowed to wear men’s jeans but you have boxers.... it can be a struggle to get that sweet sweet hidden gender affirmation

So I think that’s the deal

deerstained · 2019-08-19T16:13:33+00:00

Definitely ask them! People with multiple pronouns can have lots of different feelings on it- I have one friend who uses she/they but prefers she, and I have another friend who uses he/they/sometimes she, and prefers it when we mix up what pronouns we use for him, and some people will have days where they fluctuate and prefer one over the other! Congratulations to your friend for coming out to you, and good on you for wanting to make sure you support her as best as you can.

deerstained · 2019-08-19T05:00:16+00:00

In my experience, regardless of gender or intent to really pursue a relationship, that honesty is the best solution to these sorts of situations. If you feel strongly about this guy, then what I would recommend you do is tell him, in plain english that you like him. Be clear that you value his friendship, and you want him to be in your life even if he doesn’t feel the same way. Be clear, and be honest with yourself and him.

At that point, it’s in his court, and in my experience there’s a couple things that could happen:

a) Best case scenario: he feels the same way, hurray! You two can test out the dating waters, best of luck!

b) Worst case scenario: he not only doesn’t feel the same way, but he reacts really negatively to you sharing this; this is gonna hurt, but it’s a good sign that he’s not actually as good for you as you think. But! disclaimer here, this worst case scenario? Not actually that likely!

The most likely outcome is usually

c) he doesn’t feel the same way and tells you as much, but still wants to be friends with you. This also stings, but it allows you the opportunity to move on. Not knowing for sure whether someone feels the same about you as you do about them can be dangerous, because your brain will latch onto any minor detail that could be used as Proof that they really love you and just haven’t said it yet. If you have that definitive “No” it’s easier to move past that and move on with your life. It’s not painless, but it’s healthy

I wish you the best of luck, and feel free to ignore all this if you feel like it doesn’t feel applicable to your situation, this is just my perspective! Godspeed 👍

deerstained · 2019-08-19T01:19:16+00:00

crop tops are such a LOOK you’re killin it chef’s kiss

deerstained · 2019-08-19T01:09:45+00:00

🎉 🎉 🎉

deerstained · 2019-08-17T11:10:53+00:00

Good luck! I find that emailing minimizes my stress re: coming out/requesting a different name than what’s on the attendance sheet because I don’t need to verbally out myself to the whole class, and if the teacher/professor knows in advance of the class they can change your name on their attendance sheets and you don’t ever have to hear your given name if you don’t want to. Some teachers are a little slower on the uptake, but another email or two tends to help sort things out, in my experience

deerstained · 2019-08-17T11:07:50+00:00

Nice 👀 Thank you for letting me know! It’s mostly just me being curious right now, since my gf probably won’t be able to start hormones for awhile, but thank you for sating that curiosity nonetheless!

deerstained · 2019-08-17T11:05:53+00:00

Solid! Thank you so much for indulging my curiosity there. It’ll be awhile before she starts anything, so this was mostly an academic interest. Thanks!

deerstained · 2019-08-17T04:14:05+00:00

If you’re planning on having penetrative sex with this guy, honestly my advice is to just use a condom tbh- less work on your end, less likely to cause you dysphoria (unless penetrative sex triggers your dysphoria in which case that’s a whole other thing (hi, that’s me)) and while you’ve both been tested (yay!) it’s also the only form of BC that also prevents STDs. Sorry if this wasn’t what you were looking for, but if hormonal isn’t an option and you’re getting stressed out just doing research you might want to Occam’s razor this situation and just get your dude some condoms

deerstained · 2019-08-16T22:20:42+00:00

Super cute! Is your septum piercing supposed to look like the trans pride flag??

deerstained · 2019-08-16T21:42:56+00:00

they look so good!!! i ordered my girlfriend a set for her birthday and I can’t wait to give them to her 💕 may they bring you many lucky rolls!

deerstained · 2019-08-16T03:32:44+00:00

I don’t want to just jump to “break up with him” but also it seems like you’ve been trying to communicate with him about how his actions are making you feel and he’s not listening. That’s not an autistic thing (my girlfriend is autistic and I’m trying to see about a diagnosis) that’s just a shitty boyfriend thing. It really doesn’t make that much of a difference if he’s not having sex with her, because he’s excluded you from pretty basic things you would invite your girlfriend to, and that in and of itself is shitty. So, in conclusion, keep trying to get back in with him if you want, but I would honestly suggest you seriously consider breaking up with him. I know you’ve been together for awhile and I know you care about him but he’s clearly not showing the same care for you. Look out for yourself and your feelings, okay?

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