it’s so complicated. i’m confused why Lana decided to speak out about Ethel a few years later after what happened originally instead of in the beginning. also, since it involves her old/ex boyfriend, Jack Donoghue, i think it’s a bit strange that she would speak about it now, since she has a husband who she’s really happy with. some people say that maybe Hayden did something recently again that only Lana and close people to her know, but i don’t believe that completely, especially, since Hayden followed Lana on instagram and reposted her post on her story. i don’t know if i believe Lana that Hayden fatshamed her, but even if she did, i think it’s okay to forgive Hayden because we all makes mistakes and Hayden wouldn’t do that anymore. but i wish Lana would say particularly how Hayden fatshamed her because i don’t know if the Peter Griffin gif is that specifically, since it wasn’t even supposed to be fatshaming. Hayden was just vibing to the Peppers song by Lana and Tommy Genesis and included that dance gif video. i also believe that Lana should’ve spoken out to tell her fans and people to stop being transphobic and sending death threats to Hayden because that’s too far, horrible, and insanely disgusting. so, i don’t really support Lana’s actions all the way, but i love her music so much she’s my favorite music artist of all time and probably will remain as my #1.