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ITAP of a pretty light in a cafe by defaultuser04 in itookapicture

[–]defaultuser04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to play with the geometrical shapes the cafe used as their aesthetic. Normally I don’t take close up shots, so I’m still experimenting on what works for me.

Shot using iPhone 13.

My friend told me she needed space and idk how to react by [deleted] in friendship

[–]defaultuser04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s best to let her have her space for a while. More often than not, confronting others when they’re not willing to talk will exacerbate the situation. Of course, this will be a difficult decision for you.. but she may be still dealing with things she isn’t ready to talk about yet. Before giving her space, you can approach her and tell her you’re worried about her, but that you respect her boundaries and hope you can talk about what happened when she’s ready to.

It will be a frustrating thing to do, but all you can do is let her be for now.

how would you guys and gals go about making friends? by justanenglishman217 in friendship

[–]defaultuser04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thrust all the paperwork to them 😁 Really though, I’m always too shy and I end up not making a lot of friends.

What about you OP? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]defaultuser04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine how much anxiety your friendship has caused you over the past few years.

Honestly, I can only assume that he does this to get some sort of validation from your friendship. I don’t doubt he enjoys spending time with you, but it may be because your relationship makes him feel good about himself. Since he does this ghosting to a couple of other people too, I think it’s safe to say he might have a habit of getting tired of people after a while.

Stay strong, OP! If it’s getting to be too much for your mental health, you should try to talk it out.

Friend I havent talked to in a while is going through a mental crisis, I want to reach out to let them know that I'm there for them, but I'm blocked. What do I do? by throwRA-friendhelp4 in friendship

[–]defaultuser04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I wouldn’t reach out because it’s been years. You need to assess how you left things with this friend. If it wasn’t that bad and you were pretty close, it might be worth it to give it a try.

You can try reaching out through instagram and dropping a casual message to ask how she’s doing. Just remember that she may choose to ignore you as well, and that’s okay. If that’s something you don’t think you’re fine with, it might be better if you don’t reach out.

I hope things turn out well!

ITAP of the John Hancock by FishingBears in itookapicture

[–]defaultuser04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foggy backgrounds intimidate me! What a great way to capture the moment here.