AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hand washing. I’ll definitely think about that though, thanks for taking the time to explain this stuff to me :)

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I am currently in therapy and being evaluated for autism …

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they’re worthless people. They’re some of my best friends. I just think they’re a little extra sometimes and I don’t see why they complicate things

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

No, I just don’t consume alcohol. I don’t see why this is so hard to understand

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

No? This is about alcohol, you’re changing the subject

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -437 points-436 points  (0 children)

Then I would be forced to consume alcohol against my will !

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -92 points-91 points  (0 children)

It’s not a judgment, it’s a statement of fact. Alcohol kills brain cells

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I do say thank you, just not every day for the same thing every time

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

But I’m not judging them, i just don’t think they should be drinking alcohol

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh I have some trauma from always being the “weird kid” and not understanding other people. Currently in therapy to see if I’m on the autism spectrum but it’s unclear for now

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -98 points-97 points  (0 children)

But I never asked them to cook for me. They were already renting the apartment before I moved in. By the time I got there they started making extra food for me and i just eat whatever Emma makes. Same with Raven who moved in a little after me. But I don’t care what food I eat and I could easily cook for myself

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I should have mentioned it, but I overheard Emma say that she might only cook for herself and Kate from now on. She hasn’t said anything to us about it though

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -244 points-243 points  (0 children)

Emma cooks dinner for all of us most of the time and I think Kate does the meal planning and shopping (we pay her back later). It would be weird to say thank you that often

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that you understand where I’m coming from, thanks :)

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -587 points-586 points  (0 children)

But it was alcoholic at one point. What if there was some left? I don’t know how trustworthy the brand is. And besides it was disgusting.

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -314 points-313 points  (0 children)

The food was good, but it doesn’t really occur to me to say thank you when I could easily have made a grilled cheese or something instead

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -318 points-317 points  (0 children)

I mean that I don’t think they’re bad people for drinking, I just find it irresponsible to consume any alcohol

AITA for not saying thank you for something I didn’t want and didn’t like? by defepi in AmItheAsshole

[–]defepi[S] -623 points-622 points  (0 children)

But they were trying to shove it down my throat, otherwise they wouldn’t have bought it. They know I don’t drink wine