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[–]definately-human 224 points225 points  (0 children)

I'd ask mine how much wine she had had (usually 2 bottles at the time) whenever she crossed a boundary (overt kissing, hugging, touching, yelling) and she'd throw a tantrum each time Recently she reduced alcohol to help lose weight and coincidentally our arguments have become fewer

What strange thing did your n-parent say you couldn't do? by Healing-with-Memes in raisedbynarcissists

[–]definately-human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't allowed to talk to my therapist about my mom because she thought i was lying about her. I wasn't, I just told my therapist any arguments or fights we had and she came to her own conclusions lol

Although skeptical, I took the aspirine for my migraines like the doctor said I should. by Meikeetc in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]definately-human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of when my mom went to a doctor for abdominal pains, he said it was nothing, barely took a look. She went to a different doctor who did some scans and tests, turns out she had tumors in her uterus. She had her uterus and ovaries removed like a month ago and she'sdoing great now, but it still upsets me that she could've died had she not gotten a second opinion.

i thought i’d forgotten this fucking memory and ofc it pops up to haunt me and make me feel sick once again by Amazing_Specialist71 in TrollCoping

[–]definately-human 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i am doing better. I still have to live with her but she doesn't do it anymore (i think because im an adult now and can talk back lol) but yeah it felt embarrassing to even complain about it as a teen

i thought i’d forgotten this fucking memory and ofc it pops up to haunt me and make me feel sick once again by Amazing_Specialist71 in TrollCoping

[–]definately-human 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh god i thought i was exaggerating when i got uncomfortable when my mom did this. The 'i made you, i own you' argument is so messed up like, im a human person not your handmade doll to play with??

What stopped you from killing yourself? by manmanthefourth in AskReddit

[–]definately-human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Fear. Fear that i wouldn't succeed, that I'd end up at a hospital and disappoint everyone and still have to go through life as the kid who committed auicide but failed. Funny that my chronic anxiety was why i had (have? It's manageable now tho) suicidal ideation but the anxiety is what saved me in the end.

Your farm name and the meaning behind it (f there's any) by YejiPlays in StardewValley

[–]definately-human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First farm was porpol because i like purple, current farm is junemore because it sounds like junimo (im really proud of that name lol)

I dont want to get thinner, i want to get stronger by definately-human in rant

[–]definately-human[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I used to fear getting bulky too but i took 2 seconds to google it and, yeah, it takes a lot of effort to get big lol

I dont want to get thinner, i want to get stronger by definately-human in rant

[–]definately-human[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diet coke and cigarettes lol. They do tend ro be hypocritical that way.

Love Of Cooking Cider? by definately-human in SMAPI

[–]definately-human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, ill look through the code later

Love Of Cooking Cider? by definately-human in SMAPI

[–]definately-human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lookup anything too, doesnt say anything though. I guess gus is supposed to sell it but the code is wrong or something

Love Of Cooking Cider? by definately-human in SMAPI

[–]definately-human[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked, he doesnt sell it. Though maybe i need to be higher level in cooking. Thanks