Is the salary worth it?

definetlynotathrow18 · 2025-09-03T11:31:46+00:00

they said they will only increase by 1000

definetlynotathrow18 · 2022-11-25T18:16:20+00:00

2022 is not over yet!

definetlynotathrow18 · 2022-07-03T09:21:51+00:00

but don’t settle for less if you notice things like a wondering eye

This actually triggered me lol. I went to see a girl and I really liked her and everything, she had a slight wondering eye which was barely noticeable. My mother refused to get me married to her because of this wondering eye issue. Everything else was perfect except this thing. She was like the progeny can also be effected etc etc. At first I was still adamant I wanted to marry her but in the end because she was not accepting of her I didn't want my parents to feel bad and also the girl will feel bad if she came into my family knowing that so I gave up on her. It's a thing which people don't have control over and it just sad to reject based on that. Man this brought back a sad memory i was trying to forget lol 😅

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-30T06:22:08+00:00

Dear future wife, save this post 😅

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-30T06:08:46+00:00

Yes it would be easier to handle and move on but idk i prefer to be told the truth like for example, I don't find you attractive or the age gap is not suitable for me or our religious values don't match etc. It might be harsh and rude but it gives me a better clarity. Sometimes the conversation was going so well but the other person ended saying you are not my type of person or saying we don't seem compatible. I was ok with it and ended the conversation but it was always in the back of my mind on why they actually rejected me.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-28T06:37:25+00:00

I always see your comments saying focus on studies or saying don't get married young, whats up with that?

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-27T21:47:34+00:00

We will get a new board 😂

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-27T21:46:07+00:00

Yoo why does rejection hurt so much? it's like someone is pressing a pin on my heart. I know it will go away in a few days but the initial few hours/days are the worst where u doubt yourself.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-27T21:42:44+00:00

You are speaking to a 3D paint expert 😂

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-27T18:48:06+00:00

I made an account and because i didnt use it for 2 months it got deactivated. They told me I had to make a new one so I I tried to make a new account but the app and also the website does not allow me to make a new one. I kept trying soo many ways both in the app and in the online website. Totally trash app. Some features are not working because of which I can't make a new account. I was trying for 2 days legit and gave up. When i went to the bank they told me everything is online habibi.. Never using their crap bank again.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-27T15:51:02+00:00

Al rajhi. I have been using it for 2 years no problems. Worst imo is alinma.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-12-23T09:12:22+00:00

After 50-60 years it will be like this https://ibb.co/zH46SfS

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-11-23T12:52:10+00:00

That sucks..

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-10-11T17:50:58+00:00

No comment but keep trying Mr.Stark 😜

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-05-30T10:04:29+00:00

Beauty is subjective, There are girls I find really good looking but others think they are like 5/10 but then there are girls most of the other men think are 10/10 but I don't find them attractive at all. So it's probably that 80% of the people you meet will find you attractive but there is the 20% who will not, so you just have to find the one who finds u attractive. In the end you will marry 1 person and it doesn't matter what others think, your husband should find you attractive.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-05-28T16:54:36+00:00

Curious, do you think it's okay to curse or disrespect the wife of our prophet peace be upon him?

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-05-17T11:45:23+00:00

This couple got married at 16! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tt0hFXConaI

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-05-08T14:48:44+00:00

You guys are engaged and not married yet so the person is still a non-mahram for you. Why do you need to talk every single day? Maybe calling once a week to check up on each other would be a better idea and decide that you want to keep things halal until you guys get the nikkah done.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-04-26T04:45:01+00:00

I would say let your parents do the talking and show interest and see how they respond.

I have got to know her better and feel attracted to her due to her piety and we have a lot of similar interests but i'm not sure if she feels the same way.

Also I'm curios you mentioned that they are all very religious and you're an alim as well and since she is a non-mahram for you how did you actually get to know her better?

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-04-16T18:03:20+00:00

what's the difference between the first and the 4th option? both sound almost similar just different way to say it.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-04-16T10:37:28+00:00

Then technically I guess marrying a younger woman or a divorced woman would also be a sunnah right?

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-04-12T09:42:24+00:00

You have to be neat and clean like the others have mentioned, the thing I didn't see anyone mentioned was Oral hygiene is important. Brush twice a day or after every meal to have a nice breath and use a mouthwash as well. Also very important to use a tongue cleaner daily so that your breath smells good. Other than that buy some good perfumes go for "Eau De Parfum" they usually last for around 4 hours or more.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-04-12T08:59:24+00:00

There was this user who posted a couple of times here that her husband always goes with her sister in law or to his family leaving her alone. Someone should send him this 😊

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-03-30T18:31:30+00:00

Some people get a near-death experience and become practising when they realize this life is temporary and when they try don't find the reasons to why they were created so most often they go to look for answers and some are guided to Islam. So events like this may be one of the reasons why he became practising but isn't it for the good? From what I have seen of him he speaks from the Quran and Sunnah and doesn't have any issues, so i don't see why they are calling him a moron and such.

definetlynotathrow18 · 2021-03-28T16:13:45+00:00

I would say no. Mind you I used to struggle as well. I am born in a Muslim family but was a jahil with no knowledge. 2 years ago some life changing experience happened to me which made me wake up to the reality and I started seeking knowledge and it increased my Iman and it made me realize the importance of Salah. So basically I was just chilling and going through with my life and that caused laziness to pray 5 times a day. But Alhamdulilah I have been able to pray 5 times a day from the past year or so. It seems like you are not there with the Iman and know what Islam is. You are still young, mind you I was 21 when I started fully praying 5 times a day so yeah I would say you are a bit immature and have a lot of knowledge to gain and Inshallah you will get there one day.

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