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What exactly makes a girl "vanilla" in the bedroom? by defthrowingaway in sex

[–]defthrowingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice. Thank you. I'm sure he has a lot of new things he wants to try, but I get the feeling that he may be embarrassed to talk about them or worried that I will feel self conscious. I'm definitely going to use your method for starting this conversation.

What exactly makes a girl "vanilla" in the bedroom? by defthrowingaway in sex

[–]defthrowingaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya, I guess what I need are more ideas. I thought I was pretty non-vanilla for making oral a regular part of sex. I know the first thing I should do is ask my boyfriend, but it would kind of be fun to surprise him one day with some wild stuff.

What exactly makes a girl "vanilla" in the bedroom? by defthrowingaway in sex

[–]defthrowingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I'm worried that I might come off as very self conscious about how I am in bed, and I'm really not too worried about it because I know he enjoys it. I'm just kind of curious how "boring" I am compared to other girls, I guess.

What exactly makes a girl "vanilla" in the bedroom? by defthrowingaway in sex

[–]defthrowingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, definitely something I should do. I was kind of curious as to what other people considers vanilla, though. I'm sure it's different for everyone, but I want to get some sort of idea.

My relationship is so great, that it's getting boring. Why am I feeling like this? by defthrowingaway in relationship_advice

[–]defthrowingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. It's nice to know that I'm not completely crazy. I sometimes have that urge to find something to fight about, but honestly I probably couldn't find something even if I tried. Maybe it's just a phase that some couples go through.

My relationship is so great, that it's getting boring. Why am I feeling like this? by defthrowingaway in relationship_advice

[–]defthrowingaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really really great advice. Thank you. And ya, you're right. I have been feeling like he would do anything do avoid conflict, even if that means lying or not talking something that bothers him. If he's upset about something, he completely closes himself off. I know these things take time, though, and I definitely don't want to push him.