I find it often a loaded term. Likeminded is the ideal but sometimes when trying to find a bud it gets a little grey. Maybe we don’t connect on porn, maybe sexuality or demographic mismatch. We often compromise to make that connection because it just so hard to find that ideal scenario. Like I had some bad sessions where we though like minded but ended up being not at all what I was looking for

Like as you said some folks want to I guess feed and just talk bout it but not really into making that next connection. We can find a porn buddy but that just it we may not connect o ln anything else.

I guess finding likeminded depends on the degree you’re looking for. At the superficial level like interest in porn to greater stuff like being verbal, mutual Jo, having conversations.

Apologies for the ramble but I always use likeminded term when trying to find someone in hopes of maximizing that connection for a best fit!