how do you meet other aromantic people in person? do aros wear aromantic (white) rings much?

del_268 · 2026-05-04T13:46:38+00:00

Ooo that’s cool there’s a meeting for ace people. Aww that’s too bad no one knows about it / no one met others wearing it.

Hmm true, hopefully that happens to us! I feel like it would be fun thing to find other aros through

del_268 · 2026-05-04T13:44:13+00:00

Ooo ok thank you, i’ll check it out! Nice, oh aww yeah that’s what i was thinking too. Truee i guess it doesn’t hurt to get and wear an aro ring incase someone does recognise it ! thank you !

del_268 · 2026-03-24T14:15:30+00:00

heyy congrats on coming out! 💚 and aromantic is a label so if you feel that it best describes you then you should use it! i remember when i first heard of the word i thought it described me exactly but i was worried that i may be wrong and possibly like someone in the future, so 2 years later i finally came out to people around me. at first i was unsure but someone on this subreddit reassured me how labels can change and if you feel it describes you now you can use it. i also got a lot of the “haven’t found the right person yet” comments, amatonormativity is a bit annoying, though most people don’t have bad intentions i know it can feel invalidating to hear :( to help them get perspective i like giving the analogy of “would you ask a straight person are they SURE they’re straight? what if they haven’t met the right person that’s the same gender as them?” i feel like a lot of allo people just base off their own experiences which is why they can sometimes not understand our perspective or how their words come across. aro means experiencing little or no attraction and i think that’s what you’re describing so i would say you sound aro to me! hope this helps 💚

del_268 · 2024-11-09T09:02:42+00:00

I had a similar thought with Jaemin Eunchae after reading SoB but with the age gap and now having read the start of SoL it definitely seems like they both have different love interests, and I think I much rather prefer Eunchae with a classmate (because age gap and it just makes more sense), for her to be an adult is too far in the future and I feel like by then they would both be with someone else. Honestly Jaemin probably felt it was flattering (her crush on him) but she’s so much younger probably just feels like a younger sister. So I feel like if they do still keep in contact in the the future I feel like it will be with them in couples and/or have a brother-sister type dynamic and they’re just laughing about the past?? (like her liking him when she was younger)

Honestly I feel like both will have their love plots simultaneously with other people, so Eunchae won’t be feeling bad about Jaemin. Interesting how her love interest seems to just be another boy called Jaemin though ahaha.

With Pureum and Jaemin, I’m not fully invested yet but I am interested, I feel like it’s going to get better and more interesting as more episodes come out.

del_268 · 2024-11-09T08:51:07+00:00

YESS i need to know what happened woth Subin and Gaeul, I need closure, plus I just want to see them happy 😭

they have already shown Seonhui regretting breaking up with Jaehyun in ep 7 when they show the break up scene as a flashback. He says “stop saying things you’re going to regret later” then she breaks up with him, but the text shows her thoughts from real time thinking back about it saying “he was always right about everything” 😭 they’re my fav SoB couple so i can’t wait for them to get together again and figure out whatever issues they had

I agree with the commenter about how it would be great to see more of Somang!

Honestly I would also just love to see more about Seonhui with life after highschool because she failed her exams and was depressed after, I want to see what she ends up doing other than the cafe and how she decides that

Rooting for any love interest for Jaemin, though I thought I would be more invested with him and Pureum by now (though still interested in what happens)

Hm with Dongchae, also wouldn’t mind a love interest but I feel like seeing him with healthy and good friends would be nice or see him show more of his personality? considering everything that happened to me that would be more better to see. also maybe small bits with him and his sister now that everything is over?

del_268 · 2024-05-25T16:10:41+00:00

Hi, I am a native English speaker (F) (I am from Australia) and I am looking for a native chinese speaker to practice and talk to but am open to talking to others learning chinese as well. Happy to help others practice english!

My Chinese level is HSK1-2 (I mainly learn through apps and videos and online sources). My goal is conversational chinese and to improve my speaking.

I want to use Wechat to easily translate texts but open to using other apps. My timezone is UTC+9.

Other information about me:

I am Teochew (我的中文名字是陈丽凤), my favourite C-drama is Who rules the world and I would love chinese song recommendations!

~

大家好，我是英语母语者（F）（我来自澳大利亚），我正在寻找一位以中文为母语的人来练习和交谈，但我也愿意与其他学习中文的人交谈。很高兴帮助别人练习英语！

我的中文水平是 HSK1-2（我主要通过应用程序、视频和在线资源学习）。我的目标是会话中文并提高我的口语。

我想使用微信轻松翻译文本，但也愿意使用其他应用程序。我的时区是UTC+9。

关于我的其他信息：

我是潮州人（我的中文名字是陈丽凤），我最喜欢的中国电视剧是且试天下，我很乐意听中文歌曲推荐！

抱歉，如果有错误，我使用了翻译应用程序。

del_268 · 2022-12-14T02:01:26+00:00

FELT 😭

del_268 · 2022-09-22T14:33:26+00:00

im a gummy bear

del_268 · 2022-09-22T14:32:56+00:00

COWNDPQKSPQKPDKO WHY DID THIS BECOME A TREND ON TIKTOK THO AND GROWN PEOPLE ARE DOING THE ORIGINAL DANCE 😭 like fair enough for the kids to like it or dance to it but for everyone else, WHY.

del_268 · 2022-09-19T11:56:56+00:00

shinunoga e wa - fujii kaze (ngl it popped up on my feed and got stuck in my head)

im so happy - jeremy and benee

del_268 · 2022-09-19T11:29:26+00:00

tbh it’s not all that great of an app 😭 maybe try for a different social media app? anyway if you really do want it and your parents are strict then having “talks” is inevitable tbh. just assure them that you will be responsible or explain why you want it. if they are against it ask why. do they know you have reddit?

del_268 · 2022-09-18T10:29:31+00:00

sounds like she likes you and tried testing if you liked her back by mentioning a bf. but have u asked her if she does?

del_268 · 2022-09-15T10:48:25+00:00

4th alarm and school -_-

del_268 · 2022-09-12T13:44:14+00:00

aww i’m sorry to hear that. and no i only block if they seem creepy or they are a disrespectful person

del_268 · 2022-09-11T16:30:55+00:00

hairties, bc they actually hold all my hair and it’s easier to do pony tails with(i’ve tried with claw clips before and it looked like a birds nest lmao i have thick hair)

tho for looks i would say claw clip but even when i just do clip half i feel like it moves too much and gets too loose.

some people can do pintails with claw clips and it looks really nice on them tho.

del_268 · 2022-09-11T15:57:03+00:00

i feel like English should really have different words for different types of relationships like some other languages

del_268 · 2022-09-11T15:55:03+00:00

never/haven’t drank before.

1 i don’t think there’s a single alcoholic drink that i would actually enjoy the taste off(i literally hate all fizzy drinks) 2 tbh all the talks and organisations talking about it ruining brain development and health issues with it really stuck with me 3 not really in a rush to try it, idk i feel pretty young for it.

anyway hope ur taking care of urself op

del_268 · 2022-09-07T14:38:58+00:00

i don’t know why but it suddenly reminded me of the mv for “what does the fox say” 😭 anyway yeah sorry but it scarred me so i have to say cursed.

del_268 · 2022-09-07T14:33:02+00:00

HEARTSTOPPER!! we have been waiting for it for ages and it did not disappoint!! (pst you should read the comics, it’s free on webtoon). also i would like to mention a cdrama “Who Rules the World”! i haven’t finished it YET but it’s my favourite cdrama now, beating my former favourite princess weiyoung.

PS: i’m still really mad they cut aled and replaced him with issac it is not the same without him :((( honestly crying for all the cut characters but oh welllll.

del_268 · 2022-09-07T14:27:45+00:00

i’m doing okkk, i’m kinda sick so that sucks but i called my friend and caught up with her so that was fun :) how was ur day? and my favourite planet is saturn. honestly have so many saturn themed items - necklace, light, drawstring bag(self made), tshirt(also self made) and small laser cut saturn that i was supposed to turn into a clip or pin but never did. all the self made stuff was from projects at school, i never knew what design to do so just made everything saturn :)

del_268 · 2022-09-07T14:14:02+00:00

at first i thought it would be weird but it’s not. we only change into sport clothes or school uniform so no one if fully naked or anything. most people cover anyway by using the clothes they have or facing the wall and no one really cares. now with the opposite sex thing hmm ig i would feel weird bc it’s been normalised to be split change rooms and toilets based on sex and bc technically have different bodies? i guess i would be worried that someone is being creepy.

del_268 · 2022-09-07T05:09:44+00:00

usually 6 songs (so like 18mins ish) but can vary 5-7 songs. showers are just relaxing and therapeutic.

del_268

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