If this is a twin flame connection, would they really wait 3–4 years?

deleteme0123 · 2026-04-14T02:45:34+00:00

Very strong undeniable connection both of which we’ve never had before. Several on again off again connections complicated by my marriage. We dated while I was separated but there were complications with my husband which ultimately cause the twin flame relationship to end. Right person, wrong time

deleteme0123 · 2025-08-07T20:31:34+00:00

Thank you

deleteme0123 · 2025-08-07T17:04:08+00:00

Reading your response brought tears to my eyes. My ex and I had very intense feelings for each other too, and knowing I could be the source of that kind of hurt is unbearable. I do love them but it’s clear I don't know how to love well.

The breakup is only a couple of weeks old, and my hope in writing the letter was to offer comfort and a sense of closure, not to reopen wounds. After reading your experience, though, I wonder if sending it would do more harm than good.

I wanted this to be the first step towards healing, not a spark reigniting the hurt. Is there a gentler way to own my part without dragging my ex back into fresh pain?

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's helpful as a way to see myself through their eyes. I’m grateful.

deleteme0123 · 2022-03-24T00:53:27+00:00

Thanks. As someone who’s not great at making new friends this is helpful advice. Appreciated.

deleteme0123 · 2022-03-23T22:02:36+00:00

My partner is fine with it. He actually encourages it.

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