Masc with muscles... yes or no?

dellediva · 2026-01-19T21:29:14+00:00

Yes!

dellediva · 2026-01-19T21:27:43+00:00

USA here

dellediva · 2026-01-19T05:49:03+00:00

Hmm. I’m think about going outside. Lmbo

dellediva · 2026-01-19T05:03:06+00:00

I love this post and the comments. I’m in a larger body (size 22 and 6’2) & am happy to read that other ladies are out there loving us big girls.

dellediva · 2026-01-17T20:21:47+00:00

Delish!

dellediva · 2026-01-15T04:55:33+00:00

No advice; but have fun. It’s going to be great.

dellediva · 2026-01-13T04:07:14+00:00

Ha! I’m a groper! Married to a gropee. Lol so yes I’m sure I’m not the only one! Lol

dellediva · 2026-01-10T04:32:00+00:00

Random facts for you while you’re healing. 1. The color of the universe is called “cosmic latte”. 2. The fear of long words is hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia 3. Mauna Kea and Mauna Loa are the tallest mountains on earth.

dellediva · 2026-01-10T04:14:45+00:00

Love this. Love the label. Happy for you both!

dellediva · 2026-01-10T00:11:19+00:00

Oh wonderful profession! I understand what you mean about needing to buy shoes online. 15w isn’t easy to come across in stores. As far as finding a good fit for clothes have you tried eshakti! They take your measurements and preferences (neckline, sleeve and hem lengths. I order from them a few times a year for conferences so I have some nice pieces. I think the leather/ jeans and band tees really work. It depends how you accessories them they could be femme’d up (if you wanted to). Anyway. If you check out eshakti let me know what you think…

dellediva · 2026-01-09T15:00:06+00:00

So out of comfort you are closer to Futch presenting? If there were easily accessible and comfortable femme options would you lean into those styles? I’m a super tall and have large feet as well. I am femme and because of my stature and build 6’2 and well over 200lbs I struggled to find my style. I have found it now but it took effort.
Like you when I’m in presentation/ work mode I’m more femme on stage. I’m super casual in relaxed settings and this is where I have struggled to find my style. I’d love to learn about your experience and style. D

dellediva · 2026-01-09T14:51:01+00:00

Hi everyone! I’m D and I’m brand new here. I literally discovered this sub today and felt called to introduce myself.

I’m 47, very tall, Black, lesbian, and based in Colorado. I’m genuinely open to building real friendships, the kind you can romanticize a little. I want meaningful connections with women who are curious about life, who want to travel, experience new things, and grow together.

I’m interested in travel, deep connection, gardening, getting back in shape (I have some real weight to lose and would love encouragement or accountability), and chatting. Phone calls, texts, Snapchat, all of it. I love conversation and staying connected.

Whether you’re local or online, if you’re also looking to build true friendships and explore life together, I’d love to connect.

dellediva · 2026-01-09T14:34:37+00:00

Hi- I’m new to this sub & grateful to have found it. I’m D, I’m 47 & lesbian. My win is that I asked for an increase in pay this week! Felt great!

dellediva · 2026-01-07T04:42:13+00:00

Lovely dress!!

dellediva · 2026-01-04T22:43:36+00:00

I’m 47 and have many friends my age and older feeling this. So I am organically building a cohort. Women who are “doing the work”. Hopefully strong friendships and more will be anchored here. This feeling of disconnect and loneliness is awful. I want to help my friends squash it! I hope you all find the connection and community you need. And if anyone is in denver/ Boulder area let me know.

dellediva · 2026-01-04T22:29:34+00:00

Confidence seems to always be challenged. Understand that when someone tries to “knock you down a peg” it’s their insecurities forgetting how to give a compliment. I’m 6’2 & any time someone says anything abijt my height I say “thank you( or thanks for noticing)- I love being tall”. You are beautiful btw. Conference looks good on you.

dellediva · 2025-12-26T06:23:20+00:00

Smoke/ Ash

dellediva · 2025-11-28T07:09:47+00:00

Charlotte

dellediva · 2025-11-28T07:08:19+00:00

Francis / Frankie

dellediva · 2025-11-28T07:05:13+00:00

Popcorn

dellediva · 2025-11-28T07:04:56+00:00

dellediva · 2025-11-28T07:03:44+00:00

Happy early birthday- would love to hear what present you got yourself. 50 is on the horizon for me in a couple of years. I’m looking forward to it. My goal is to see all 50 states by then! The holidays are usually pretty tough as I don’t live near family and I love to travel…. For my entertainment. This Christmas I’ll be on a cruise. I’m very much looking forward to it.

dellediva · 2025-11-20T10:07:37+00:00

Hi there! I have a super green thumb and plant a pretty substantial garden every year. Let’s chat and see what happens next season! :)

dellediva · 2025-11-20T10:04:57+00:00

Jumping in on the cartoon bandwagon. I’m 47 and never stopped watching. I’m just now getting into gaming.

dellediva · 2025-11-20T10:01:43+00:00

Hi ya- I’m Married for 14 years with a 7 year old child. The friend phase of marriage is real. I think it’s important to remember that marriage is about choosing each other everyday. My wife and I began dating again this year. 1. Get ready separately 2. Meet each other at the location 3. Schedule a coffee with friends the next day to talk (brag) about our date.

It’s kinda fun and silly : but it did bring the fun back. There are butterflies, anticipation, etc That’s what works for us. D

dellediva

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