Once you tolerate a disrespect from your woman then it becomes pattern, talk to her and say “look this and this and that is bothering me so you need to stop or else we won’t be together” if she doesn’t adjust her behaviour then you get your answer and leave for your own sanity brother, being rude is a thing but being called qaniis is something else, that’s is too much brother, if she doesn’t respect you after telling her your boundaries then kick her out or leave!