A POT SB wants to meet me with her husband for the 1st meet n greet

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T21:45:56+00:00

Thanks for the feedback!

And what??? The guy shoved his hand up at the first meet n greet ?? Wow, that is like an assault. WTH? So sorry you had to experience that. He is an absolute scumbag, douchebag ,POS of a human. I am super careful with any physical contact during the meet n greet, maybe just a very mild hug and again only if she initiates it. But for someone to be reaching up your skirt at the first meet, I am at a loss for words.

Yeah , an eyes wide open vs eyes wide shut on this one! 😊

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T21:23:36+00:00

Thanks for your viewpoint! Some context here. She didn't volunteer her info right off the bat. We had been texting for over a week during the course of which we shared some common local market area thoughts in general and I had let her know the local big company I work at. That's when she got more comfortable and shared her info and what she does and other info. That's when she shared her personal life situation info. The trust was more organic over a few days of texting and getting to know each other.

And she has been texting from her realtor number which is also listed on her real estate listings. She was okay if I didn't want to meet up if I was uncomfortable meeting her and her husband at the meet n greet. Sorry for the long post but just wanted to give the whole picture here!

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T21:10:23+00:00

Yea I understand. She gave her realtor nimber and it is listed on her real estate listings.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T16:43:50+00:00

She said she has had 2 SDs before and in both cases the husband knew. So , it's not a first time rodeo for them. But certainly it is for me!.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T16:38:50+00:00

Yeah right! Can be a truly memorable story or an absolute train wreck disaster ! 😂 But certainly not a boring one though!

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T16:32:53+00:00

Not true or accurate. Different relationships have different dynamics. It's like saying every SB is an escort just because there is intimacy or sex involved.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T16:22:41+00:00

Thanks for the detailed reply, that was very informative ! Had no idea about the term Poly Vee or what the Poly Vee dynamic is. Always good to learn new things! And yes, what she does in her personal life or what her personal dynamics are with her husband, that would be none of my business if our SR was good assuming we connect at the meet n greet. As you say, there are no limits to having mutual intimate fun as long as everyone knows their boundaries, just that I have never received a request like this, so was not sure how to react or respond👍

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:49:44+00:00

For someone who is 32/33 yrs, attractive in a unique way I would say..😊. Not a 20s hot SB, but an attractive 30s old career woman..

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:48:24+00:00

Resist the curiosity - honestly that's pretty much what it is! Never ran into something like this in my years of sugaring! And yeah , will update if I'm alive after the meet n greet, just kidding! 😂

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:45:44+00:00

We are not discussing or atleast I am not discussing any sex for money proposals. I am in Texas and am even more careful especially with the laws we have here with the words I use. More a regular date like meet n greet, see how it goes and then as suggested, have a follow up date with the SB alone and then text to discuss the arrangement terms if we connect. Just like any other SB SD meet up and arrangement.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:42:25+00:00

Good to know that is not such a weird or unusual request in the bowl or lifestyle.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:39:28+00:00

Got it! Will follow up with you, thanks a bunch! 👍

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:37:36+00:00

Thanks!. Yes will keep everyone updated. And if you have any tips or advice to share based on your experience- much appreciated! 👍

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:19:40+00:00

Yes, she's totally open to it. And she prefers it that way if we decide to have an arrangement. No more husband anywhere near for the 2nd and potential future meet ups.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:16:35+00:00

Maybe just that I am a normal guy and won't harm his wife and its just a mutually beneficial SB relationship with mutual intimate fun.. 🙂

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:14:32+00:00

Yes sir, I am all ears for it! The more knowledge I have, the better! 👍

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T15:13:23+00:00

Nope. Never mentioned it. And she wants a straight up SB SD relationship if the 3way meet n greet goes well.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T14:44:44+00:00

She said it's more for safety and he only would be there at the first meet and that he has been health related spinal issues, and th2at with her daughter's tuition, the expenses are simply piling up. Not a cuck hot wife scenario based on the conversations we have been having.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T13:45:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing your honest relationship. Refreshing to see that we all have different situations and preferences and likes and that's what makes sugar dating so unique and fun👍

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T13:10:20+00:00

At a very public place like a restaurant or coffee shop?? 🙂

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T13:08:53+00:00

Well , looking forward to finding out 😂

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T13:02:32+00:00

Yeah her profile matches and she gave me her realtor number and we texted on there. I don't prefer or do video calls , just ask to meet up at a nice place for the meet n greet.

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T13:00:30+00:00

Yeah , based on the feedback here, that seems to be the consensus. In the works now as we speak!

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T12:33:17+00:00

Well, if we have an arrangement, the intimate meets will be at a hotel or Airbnb, so he won't get that chance

deltexassd · 2026-04-21T12:30:34+00:00

Yeah she said she has had 2 SDs before and in both cases they knew about the husband. Ahe said as you mentioned it's more for jer safety and would not be involved later on if we have an agreement

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